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Tress
Tress

my boyfriend is extremely stressed and told me that he is not enjoying sex like he did in the past. He explains that this is one reason why he does not want to move in with me. We’ve been together for 6 years and he says that he’s willing to work on us and staying together. I am trying to be there for him but we are in a long distance relationship right now. Does anyone have any advice for me?

Sillywabbit4u
Sillywabbit4u
Stress can be hard on a guy. I know for certain, I have a hard time having sex when I am stressed out. And even when I am in the mood, and have sex, I have a hard time focusing on ejaculating.
Is he possibly stressed about just moving in together?
Barry
Barry
You are in the best position to decide whether your boyfriend's reasons for not returning your love for him stack up. It's worth being there for him only if you think they do.
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