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i thought it might be fun to have a place for "you people" (i.e. HS members) to say whatever is on your mind...be it sexual or not.
maybe it will give us a chance to see the flip side of the different personalities here.
say anything you want.
i always wanted to be a contestant on "the price is right" when bob barker was the host.
maybe it will give us a chance to see the flip side of the different personalities here.
say anything you want.
i always wanted to be a contestant on "the price is right" when bob barker was the host.
I am loving the iPad Mini. It's much better for apps that I use than android. Android was up scaled versions of the android phones, these are actually made for the iPad's screen and isn't up scaled. Meh gusta.
I have exciting news of my own. I found out Wednesday, but I wanted hubby to be the first to know, and I wanted to tell him over Valentine's Day dinner. Now he knows, so I get to tell all my DS friends! I'm pregnant! Brand-new Mitchell on the way ^_^
I did think Faith was a boy, so I'm not sure how reliable my baby-sense is...
fast forward to home. I have a big exam in class that night. i am trying to study off and on all day and it isnt going well because i am tired and tending to my husband and kids. I get him in bed, get him all propped up with pillows, i had gone shopping to make sure i had him stocked up with gatorade and things of the like. I am preparing all his foods and bringing them to him in bed, making sure he is taking his medication, etc. My MIL came over to sit with the kids while i went to class. I rush home straight from class to get my son ready to go to spend the night at my MILs and my daughter in bed to go to school. I am extremely tired, but still manage to give hubs a handjob to help him fall asleep.
wednesday, tending to him, rotating him ice-packs in and out, getting netflix movies out for him so he can get more, helping him get into different clothes, etc. need to run errands, get my daughter to school, get her to taekwondo, pick up my son, and then run 20 minutes away to get hubs BBQ from his favorite place for dinner and swing through wendy's to get him and the kids fries. Found out my grade on my test and was REALLY upset and the kids are REALLY trying my patience.
thursday. gotta take the kids to school and speech again. Sit and try to study for my quiz. come home, more laundry and dishes, making treats for my daughters school party, tending to youngest, go to class party, come home and attempt to study some more while i prepare dinner to be ready before i have to leave for class. Hubs keeps telling me, "hurry home" and complaining about being alone with the kids. We are talking 3 hours! i set up the laptop on a learning website with games, they have to cell phone with games, i got their dvd case with their movies, everything is set and ready for them to just chill up in the bedroom with him. i dont get what more i was supposed to do! I hurry home, get the kids in bed, and then get hubs undressed and into the shower so i can wash him down, wash his hair, get him dried off, and dressed again. Finish up the night with a blow-job for valentines day.
So, for months i have had plans to go out with a friend of mine tonight. i am a BIG fan of The Walking Dead and her husband got her tickets to go meet some of the cast members tonight and she invited me. Hubs has been complaining to no end about me going. That it is ridiculous that he is only 4 days out of surgery and i have been "gone" for 3 out of 4 nights. Again, we are talking about 3 or 4 hours! i wont be gone all night! we are going out to eat and for a couple drinks before heading over to the event and i will be coming home right after. I found out that some other friends of hers are going so i told him today, "well, it is good that other people are going to, because that means she doesnt have to leave when i do. So if i need to cut out a little early it wont be such a big deal." and just replies in a smart aleck tone, "yeah, because your husband just had surgery and is pain isnt a good ENOUGH excuse." He is pissed and irritable because the kids woke up early and are being loud. I am TRYING to get them to be quiet, it just isnt happening. So i make him breakfast, bring it up to him, get him his meds, etc and he wants me to look for ear plugs. So i am searching and cant find anything and he is getting mad. So i am on my hands and knees, looking under the bed, under the night-stand, behind the night stand and i find a small piece of one and say, "this is all i can find" and he looks at me with total disgust and says, "i am NOT using something that was on the floor! i guess i will just have to settle for my swim ear plugs. they are in my gym bag." so i get those out and get them to him.
seriously? am i over-reacting by being irritable? I think i am doing a pretty damn good job of caring for him! I can tell you that after the birth of both our kids and after the 4 surgeries that i have had since we have been together that i have never gotten that kind of treatment! Is it that horrible of me to go out with a friend tonight? The kids are going with my MIL. He will just have to hang out in the bedroom with netflix, movies, cable, etc. or sleep. browse the internet. etc.
How far along are you?
I am going out tonight! With two girlfriends. I'm talkin hair did, nails did, skirts and heels! I'm so excited to get out of this house and socialize with real humans...lol.
And try to turn a few male heads while I'm at it. :)