don't believe what other jealous women say. many men (if not a majority IMO) like fuller figures and the hour glass body you are describing. how tall are you? isn't size 10 a good size? sorry, but skinny with no shape is just not sexy. sticks have splinters on them. plus you work out so your tone probably really adds to your hourglass in a good way.

hey other guys, do you like skinny and no shape? or curves and healthy looking women? let's see what the other men say.

Tell that "friend" to fuck off. Believe me, that "friend" ain't perfect either!

I'm only 5"2' maybe 5'3

I would just eliminate that "friend" from facebook and go on with my life.

AMEN SUZANNE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I told my boyfriend what had happend and he told me. She's jealous baby. Thick girls are where its at, bones are for the dogs and meat is for men.
I laughed but at least he thinks im sexy

OMG... that's so mean. Get rid of that person on facebook. They're not a friend. Suzannes right.

Fullmetal, only thing that matter is what your guy thinks. If he thinks you look great and sexy then you do look great and sexy. Ignore all the negative comments and enjoy your wonderful body because you're a goddess to your boyfriend.

And real women have curves. :)

Not to put oil on the fire....but as a guy...we are all looking for the woman "in shape" in most times when we fill out any matchmaking pages. The same way most woman prefer "guys in shape" . It is not mean i would not want to be friend with someone heavier, but it maybe more appealing for the eyes. When i use to go to a blind date you can call me shallow i didn't bother to callback heavier type ladies.Now here is the famous lies are coming in for both side............................
Hight, weight, hair ...AGE....so when you show up you cant recognize your date. Let's be honest even as we try to show solidarity. I am positive many woman feels the same way about guys. Once a woman told me if the guy bends his neck down and he cant see he's toes it is out of the question she would date him...You need explanation? And what about the question of self esteem? Unfortunately comes hand and hand with the person 99% of the times.

Reminder.... Maybe you are just shallow. In my opinion. Because I do work out. I do eat right. I run 6 miles every other day. I'm healthy just on the heavier side. Its fine that would wouldnt want to be with a heavy girl but I wouldnt want to be with someone with a SMALL heart.

I've dated guys over 300 pounds and guys under 120 pounds. I care more about what someone has on the inside rather than on the outside but maybe thats just me "Everyone knows you are only pretty on the outside."

Plus My DD tits add a little weight so I like to believe.

I am sooooo agree with you. It should be more about the heart than the look. I had never mentioned your name as an example, i am talking about general terms in a big picture. I have been around the block, some dating sites years ago, on the west and the east coast, and have not seen many ads when girls are OK with overweight guys. Why would they as the selection is so great, no one wants to settle lesser what they set out for themselves.

You are very lucky to do all that physical activity ,and have never seen you in life, but the majority of women and MEN with that hight and that weight is considered to be heavy. I am 5-9 and 170 size 32 waist. And as said i am not singled you or anyone out out i am talking about the general society of most people.Examples are out to interpretation.. The first thing is always the look, the smile (psst..her ass) when i/we meet someone. I am not a boob man. And the rest comes later and oh boy how wrong we can get our initial feelings. I am the greatest example. I sure don't know how to pick them. POTLUCK i would call it.

I agree that you whould dump the friend. And by all means, do not talk your boyfriend out of being with you by talking yourself down! You're a gorgeous girl inside and out.

Now let me say this . . . not all of us are blessed with curves or an hourglass figure, and it doesn't feel very good to keep reading about how "real women have curves." I guess I'm not a real woman then . . .
I see it all over FB all the time, and now it's here, too? I'm not a rail, but according to "the people" of FB and now apparently here as well, I'm not a woman, I have splinters, I would not be enjoyable to touch. Ouch.
Rant done, carry on.

Awesome: everyone has something beautiful about them. Everyone wants what they cant have I suppose because I would rather be a rail than to be curvy with big boobs. Thats why I run as much as I do but the weight wont come off.

I know we all have our own beauty, and I'm fine with my figure in most aspects. But I just think any time people generalize one particular look as the only attractive one and put down all the rest, it's just not nice. My cousins post all these things about what "real women" look like on FB almost daily, and not everyone fits that - my lack of curves doesn't make me any less real :-)