If you don't like kissing then that's normal for you. I love kissing, gets my juices flowing but I don't like a lot of kissing during sex and that's normal for me.

Could be you just have not met the right lips or as leather said, kissing is just not you


Myself, gotta have some tongue tangling spit swappin tonsil ticklin kissin.

Yes

Gotta suck face during sex. Takes me over the edge.

Have you only kissed one guy?
You should try it with more than one person before making that assumption. Maybe he was just one bad kisser.

Tongue tangling spit swappin tonsil ticklin kissin......Damn Toss, you do have a way with words, that's the sexiest thing I ever heard. :)

Hmmmm.......is it still just as good if she no longer has her tonsils to tickle? I still have mine, I'm just curious. ;o)

@ awe shucks leather, can't really say anymore if its better or not, been so long, I forget.

I love kissing! I think it might be the people you have kissed.

When I first met my late Husband he was a Terrible kisser. The first time I kissed him.... I pulled out of the lip-lock and asked him if he was trying to rearrange the furniture in the room? lol I am not sure how I came up with that but I did. His head was swinging all over the place really fast and it was like he was trying to swallow me. lol I taught him how to kiss and he ended up being a great kisser. Years later we laughed about it. I am glad I did because he was a wonderful man.

I agree maybe this person is just not a good kisser. I love kissing. Nothing better than the kinda teasing and biting the lip a little and then going in for the deep i want you kiss.. with just enough spit to make it super sexy.. boo now I am really missing kissing:( sigh.. anyhow i would say dont give up on kissing yet and if you like the person maybe you can gently explain how you like to be kissed.. just a thought

I didn't like kissing at first, i thought it was slimy and gross but now I love it! Altho my partner and i never tongue wrestle... at least not deep. just on the surface. He's the only guy I have actually kissed. (besides pecks). And I'm usually breathing to hard to kiss for a long period of time during sex, but I enjoy kissing other parts of him :D

Thanks guys for your replies lol

He is the only person I have kissed and I didn't like it at all. According to him, he has kissed a lot of girls, so I thought this made him good at it and me bad ..

But just like someone said, all he did was stick his tongue and it was like a washing machine, non stop lol .. and for the times I tried to do it myself and be a bit more gentle, he would always end up on that, so obviously this is the idea I got from the whole thing..

I didn't even think he could be bad since he was the "experienced" one and not me .. but now you all got me wondering..

I just don't have another person to kiss and make my own conclusions lol

I find kissing one of the most intimate things I can do with a woman... so at times, when I wasn't 'feeling it' really , I didn't like to kiss that much.

I suppose it should have been a red flag that I didn't like to kiss my ex wife.

But yes, I would find more men to kiss so that you have a basis of comparison.

Nothing wrong with you Christi. You just don't like french kissing.

Kissing is sensual. Have your man lightly kiss around the chin and neck and slowing work up to the lips.

It doesn't mean he's a bad kisser, it just means he doesn't kiss in the way you like to be kissed. Another woman might think he's a fantastic kisser, it's all a matter of individual likes and dislikes.

I've heard many people say "good kisser"... "bad kisser"

but experience has taught me that every woman likes to be kissing in different ways. Some like it teasing and gentle and some like to tangle tongues.... and some like it to START teasing and then really get in there to show them how badly you want them.

Wait... what are we talking about? I think my brain just rebooted.

yeah. i am not a big kissing fan either. i like lips and maybe a little sneak of tongue here and there, but mainly lips. men dont seem to get that. they always want to use an insane amount of tongue. i dont really "hate" kissing, but i dont really "Enjoy" it either. i just kinda tolerate it.

now, kissing another woman? much better. much slower and with more lip.