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did your SO ever

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
ask you for sex when you were sick, knowing you were sick? did you or did you not do it and what happened? If u did it, did it make u sicker?

Just a passing thought that passed through my mind while I was convelesing :)
des10ed2b
des10ed2b
my husband ALWAYS masturbates or has me play with him when he s sick. he says t makes him feel better and sleep better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've felt sick all week yet my libido hasn't waned. I thought it would've..

when my bf was sick i didn't push him for any sex tho heobviously wanted it at one point.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes with the exception of when I've had a migraine, the stomach flu or running a high fever.

To Peterpaul: for me, no I don't find it selfish at all because he knows I I'm in the mood even when I'm sick.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Quite a few times after I threw out my back. Afterwards I always felt better in more ways than 1. Never when I had an illnesses though like the flu.
awesomeself
awesomeself
Just don't request a bj when your partner's nose is completely plugged. That is NOT fun for her.
lostsoul72
lostsoul72
Its been proven the sex is the best medicin anyway ! It release endorphins and other hormones that help you feel better and you white blood cell count goes up too to fight off infections and viruses. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
My husband asks for sex when I am sick and vice versa and we usually do it.. It actually makes you feel better and helps you sleep better.. Sex is really good for you in a lot of ways.
MsViv
MsViv
But a bj will clear up a sore throat. Lol
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I found what lost said to be true!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I honestly don't remember.
I rarely got sick before I had my son.

Ex habitually masturbated in the shower every morning. Kinda left me out of the loop, sts
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree Lost, I've always felt better after having sex when I was sick.
MadameXXX
MadameXXX
I love sex when i'm sick.
Whyme12
Whyme12
Awesome - That just happened to me like 2 days ago! And I agree, I enjoy having sex when I'm sick, same as partner!
debmitchell
debmitchell
When I'm sick, I never feel up for it, but it always makes me feel better. For completely different reasons (I'm very submissive, and I wanted to show my husband that I wanted him to take control of me in the bedroom) I told him that, as far as I was concerned, whatever I may say, however I may feel, it was entirely up to HIM when we had sex. The very next time I got sick, he tested it lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sex and intimacy has been a problem issue in my current marriage and so sex while she's SICK is DEF out of the question. However, i have NEVER refused a partner sexually. Even if i'm sick, i would probably let her get her own pleasure from me.
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