Healthy Sex Support Group
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I recently submitted a profile to an online dating service, after brousing the site and reading a few profiles, many coincidences came into play, For instance
Fictitious names:
#1 JOAN of COllins writes
Im looking for a mature male, one who is self confident, has his affairs in order, financially secure and willing to travel to distant shores in search of true love and romance.
sidenote, if your here for a 1night stand, keep looking
or
Bev Hillis writes
seeking true romance, fireworks are mandatory, enjoying life one day at a time, hoping to find the spark that makes me glow.
Id like to meet for a drink or two, see if there is chemistry then set off on an adventure you won't soon forget.
sidenote, If your here for 1 thing only keep looking
then this one
Sammie Jammer
Whats up? just checking this out to see if any one wants to pamper me the way I should be pampered. We all want some loving, do you have what it takes? I like to eat a top restaurants, and shop til I drop.
sidenote, I am not a bootycall
OK so my take is all three are looking for a sugardaddy, and men are not supposed to want to get laid.
not all of the profiles are this way, but there are enough to draw certain conclusions, and if 70% of all relationships start on line, should we not dispense with the known implied truths. Maybe add a check board to relate to men wanting sex, and women wanting cash.
thoughts?
I recently submitted a profile to an online dating service, after brousing the site and reading a few profiles, many coincidences came into play, For instance
Fictitious names:
#1 JOAN of COllins writes
Im looking for a mature male, one who is self confident, has his affairs in order, financially secure and willing to travel to distant shores in search of true love and romance.
sidenote, if your here for a 1night stand, keep looking
or
Bev Hillis writes
seeking true romance, fireworks are mandatory, enjoying life one day at a time, hoping to find the spark that makes me glow.
Id like to meet for a drink or two, see if there is chemistry then set off on an adventure you won't soon forget.
sidenote, If your here for 1 thing only keep looking
then this one
Sammie Jammer
Whats up? just checking this out to see if any one wants to pamper me the way I should be pampered. We all want some loving, do you have what it takes? I like to eat a top restaurants, and shop til I drop.
sidenote, I am not a bootycall
OK so my take is all three are looking for a sugardaddy, and men are not supposed to want to get laid.
not all of the profiles are this way, but there are enough to draw certain conclusions, and if 70% of all relationships start on line, should we not dispense with the known implied truths. Maybe add a check board to relate to men wanting sex, and women wanting cash.
thoughts?
just be glad that you can see through these profiles!
Give these women a break. They're just looking for that perfect, special someone we all hope exists. Just like you.
Guys, if you don't get any, she just wasn't in to you. Period. I've dated men with plenty of money who didn't stand a chance and vice versa.
I think that is a given at the onset of any relationship, until barriers are broke down and the two enjoy knowing one another. I'm sure there are lots of guys and girls looking for one thing and one thing only, however, I also see it as lame to ask to be wined and dined in a very material fashion and then to exemplify that in no certain terms will 69 come into play.
JMO but the chase, the anticipation of what might transpire add to the zest of the relationship growing and or suffocating. Why spoil it with phrases that indicate a lack of interest in sex and a strong interest in bank accounts, then again it does help in reducing the # of profiles I favor.
Sammie Jammer and Joan of Collins, they both sound way too materialistic. I'd say they are looking more for a sugar daddy than a genuine relationship. This is just my impression from reading their profiles and I could be way off but I see them as the type that bitches and moans if their hair gets messy during a romp. I also see them as the type that will use sex as a reward or no sex as a punishment. As I said, this is just the impression I got from reading what they wrote.
It's good these women do put down what they do, easier for you to sort through and not have to waste your time on someone that might be an Ice Princess.
Keep looking Toss, lots of women out there, you'll find one that matches up with you.
My favorite why do they bother to say it statements are "I love to have fun" and "I love to laugh". Does anyone dislike having fun or laughing? If so, I've never read a profile that states so.
The other two are questionable.
Joan of Collins makes it clear you'll have to spring for a trip to Europe or Asia just to meet her. Expensive.
Sammie Jammer has made it obvious that she wants to spend your money...and no guarantee that she'll even put out sexually. Drop her.
I'd bypass the whole online thing altogether, and just strike up a conversation about something stupid with the next fine thing you happen to see standing in line with you at the supermarket or wherever your travels take you. In person, you can instantly tell whether or not there's any attraction whatsoever, without having to wade through these endless online profiles.
I think #2 wasn't clear in what the one thing might be. This person, may not want the following: 1night stand, being financially responsible for someone else.
I think #3 is confused and strange. Anyone who expects all their wants to be financially taken care of is selfish, self centered and nuts. And then the sidenote of "I am not a bootycall". She might not be a booty call but she isn't a compassionate, fun person either. HIGH MAINTENANCE.
You just need to relax and hang loose. I do recommend finding other activities to participate in where you can meet other people though. Especially on the days when you are off work.