Bub,

Yes i bet a CockRing might do... but a strap is so adjustable. The rings I have are all either too tight or too lose.. almost never just right.

On the issue of the strap edges or ends rubbing against sensitive bits. It is almost flush when strapped around and cinched down. It could even give a little GOOD rubbing nubby ... I dunno for sure.

Finally... where the heck is Joki and why hasn't she reported back on trying this stuff???

I hope it is just because she is so busy with newfound hardnesses of her partner that she lost track of time.

laters..

J

One perfectly natural method that works sometimes, is soft insertion.
In other words, after foreplay, let him just place his penis, in and around your vagina, without worrying about getting an erection. Just a relaxing good time with no pressure to get more than a closeness. Might take a few times trying this, but you might be surprised. Most of the time an erection will happen after a few sessions, as long as there's no high expectations, or guilt if it doesn't happen every time.
I was taking paxil or something (i don't anymore) a few years ago, and was told to try this and at the time, it was very enjoyable
Now, it doesn't make much difference to me cause i'm cut off by my wife, but this might help in your case.

Hi guys! As it turns out, he is on an anti-depressant.........that is probably what is causing the issue. Thanks for all of the comments!!!

Cable ties ? like the ones some ppl call zip strips ? they lock tight , & you have to cut them loose? that's the cable ties I used when I worked for a cable co.
if you don't put them on backwards they'll lock on there & you'll have to cut them off & draw blood & cable ties don't bleed.lol...

My cousin takes Extenze, he says it works like Viagra in a half hr.
He buys trial packs at Kroger for $5.00 there's 5 in a pack.
they're sold near trail/vacation size pack stuff.

Yes anti depressants can & do cause penis depression.
Just like many other drugs doc's push on ppl.

When I was 56 I had a 54 year-old friend who was mostly impotent from medications. If I went down on him, he stayed hard and climaxed, but if he tried to penetrate, it went soft immediately. I suspected either selfishness on his part, or some other psychological issue. I found it very strange that his dingie worked just fine for HIS pleasure, but never for mine.

Thanks LivingWater! Yeah - it is weird - like he is hard at first, but after just a little while (like maybe a minute), he starts losing it. It is very frustrating for him! He is going to talk to the doctor and see if there is anything he can do to adjust the dosage or whatever. Wish us luck!

Cowboy,

Well they are called cable ties .. but VELCRO ties ... LOL .. yeah using those zip-strip cable ties would lead to some delicate and tricky cutting and releasing -- don't use those!!!

J

LivingWater...

I am afraid you have it wrong and that poor guy deserves an apology..

A lot of the issue is cardio/health related. When a guy is on his back or sitting up (getting a nice BJ) he may be not exerting himself and Willie stays up just fine. But when he gets into what is essentially a pushups position then heart rate goes up .. exertion goes up and for someone marginally in shape or with cardio problems .. the first thing to deflate is the erection... got nothing to do with selfish.

J