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So my wife talked to her boyfriend last nite till almost midnite and she told me this morning that she got him off over the phone. I was sound asleep at the time. She was quite turned on by her new found hobby of phone sex with this guy. She was wet as hell this morning also but I had no interest at all in making love with her!
She also told me last week that she would never leave her family and her job and lose half of what she owns to move down to conneticut with him and he doesn't seem to have much interest in leaving his job to permanebtly move up here to be with her, however, he will be here to visit her for 2 days this coming weekend. I have been told that she will be with him the entire two days that he is here and that I can have the car during that time.
I think she wants to have her cake and eat it too but the idea of me going with another woman is repulsive to her.
What do u guys think?
She also told me last week that she would never leave her family and her job and lose half of what she owns to move down to conneticut with him and he doesn't seem to have much interest in leaving his job to permanebtly move up here to be with her, however, he will be here to visit her for 2 days this coming weekend. I have been told that she will be with him the entire two days that he is here and that I can have the car during that time.
I think she wants to have her cake and eat it too but the idea of me going with another woman is repulsive to her.
What do u guys think?
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So mad at Xfinity! They're trying to charge me $115 per month for the same service I had been paying $50 the last four years. I took the equipment to UPS for shipping and cancelled my subscription today! Next door was a cookie shop called Crumbl. I had heard of it before but never went in until today. I don't need one more sugar fix, but maybe it will help with my sad) grieving heart....$15...
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
Right now she is on the phone with him whispering sweet nothings in each others ears. Talking about the good ole days and emphasizing how miserable she has been over the past 20 years which, of course is all exagerated and meant to gain his sympathy. On the one hand it makes me sick to my stomach, had to take an antacid pill, on the other hand makes me happy to see her happy. I think they call that codependancy. So I am to blame for not giving her an ultimatum.
The thing I want the most right now is for her to leave and let me start a new life. I'll let you guys know what happens next weekend when he lands in town.
Find your strength Bob...
I am not going to talk about her like everyone is other than I agree with them. My opinion though is you need to get a lawyer and file for divorce and take what you can get. She will never have respect for a nice guy like you and she will continue to disrespect you. Cut your losses and move forward you deserve much better than what your getting...
Please don't let yourself be walked all over like this. You are too kind and loving of a person and you don't deserve a second of it. You are so much better off without her.
Cheating on your spouse, breaking your vows, is disrespectful enough, but to flout it the way she is takes it to an entirely different level. Frankly, I think that kind of disrespect is a good sign that it might be a good idea to file for divorce.