Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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sossie 07/06/2013

Do you consider blow jobs under the having sex catergory?

I am not talking about cheating or anything in the relationship spectrum...

But if someone told you to tell them if you had sex with a person but you only ended up giving them a blow job would you tell them or since it wasn't actually sex not say anything?

LuvMyTitans 07/06/2013

I am confused. I am not a member of this group, I lurk........... but I am pretty sure that giving a blow job consitutes sex. In the form of giving a blow job.

sorry.I may not get the gist of this post.

sossie 07/06/2013

Well I am trying to convince my self of a technicality that sex isn't just a blow job because there was not sex organ to sex organ penetration..just sex organ to an orifice on my body penetration.

I guess I know deep down the correct answer to that question just trying to justify it in my brain...

gina666 07/06/2013

That is a form of sex to me

MsViv 07/06/2013

It's not sex if your name is Bill Clinton

deleted_user 07/06/2013

Talking is a form of sex. Sex touches the mind before it touches the body. I think you might be splitting hairs. but what is the point you are trying to make since you had said this is NOT about infidelity?

deleted_user 07/06/2013

IMO, anything done sexually with another person is sex, it's not intercourse but it is sex.

sossie 07/06/2013

ok ok ok guess I know what I need to do...

deleted_user 07/06/2013

LOL I am going to be your voice of reason - cause I know you so well

Do not do what you think you have to do

Yes technically its sex but pretty sure you don't owe anyone anything

drew4lostluv 07/06/2013

You got a guys wang in your mouth how much more sexual can you get. bam bam bam bam bam pow right in the kisser

drew4lostluv 07/06/2013

just a joke I got off family guy I shouldn't have posted sorry

freakchick3175 07/08/2013

Yea, Hence the term oral sex

reveal321 07/08/2013

according to bill clinton, no....he did NOT have sex with that woman.

koolman 07/08/2013

I'm not Bill Clinton, and, yes, I consider a blowjob having sex!

deleted_user 07/08/2013

If someone asked......It depends on who's asking and why are they asking?
My answer would vary given the situation, but it may sound something like this
No penis in my vagina, but I give a hell of a blow job! Teehee

deleted_user 07/08/2013

If the woman doesen't swallow when giving a blowjob, is it Sex??? lol...

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