Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Hi,
I'm back in a relationship after allowing too many years to go by. I'm super nervous about getting on top but I don't want my boo to do most of the work, & get bored w/the same old... So I did switch recently but I live in the dorms & these beds are just not the business (super loud) so we swapped. He says take my time but I don't want to push him away but I'm struggling with my nerves although I'm sure he'd appreciate me just doing it. Is that a turn off to guys although I know they like being in control? I'm sure they may like a woman taking charge sometimes.
I'm back in a relationship after allowing too many years to go by. I'm super nervous about getting on top but I don't want my boo to do most of the work, & get bored w/the same old... So I did switch recently but I live in the dorms & these beds are just not the business (super loud) so we swapped. He says take my time but I don't want to push him away but I'm struggling with my nerves although I'm sure he'd appreciate me just doing it. Is that a turn off to guys although I know they like being in control? I'm sure they may like a woman taking charge sometimes.
I read it a lot about women being apprehensive in taking the top side and in some ways I can see why. My take, there are so many aspects of having a lady on top, and there are numerous variations being on top. For lack of a better term, a good flat foot fuck is very desirable, either reverse or forward or from the side, like prizz said, just hold your self there and let the rat-a-tat- tat pistoning begin. Both partners get in time, rythym and just wow, plus it is very easy to stroke some very sensitive areas to add pleasure plus give a good smack on a cheek to show approval. Best of all, a guy gets to look up at what in that moment is heaven on earth. Coast, not me, way too many places for my hands to roam and sights for my eyes to behold. Someday, someday.
As far as grooming. I have razor bump issues as well. I use Clippers to trim as low as I can get it, then shave between my cheeks & thighs. I have never tried waxing, but that's next on my agenda. Make it cute & inviting down there. Have fun..You are thinking too much. I know it has been a while. but relax & let your hair down. Confidence goes a long way. You will get there. Just relax & enjoy him.
-E!