Yes, Okie, that's the only way I do it, but I'm still just waiting to get flipped over or around.

I enjoy being on top too, but recently I have some issues with my partner that make this position uneasy.

Ebbi,

Sex is mostly about trust and communication. Do, say what feels natural.
Sometimes it helps to talk about it before you are even going to have sex. Hhve it be part of your conversation. "What do you like?" "I like when you do this..." Do you want to try.? "This is what I was thinking..."

I agree with Gina, I like switching it up but I gotta be on top!

Ebbi are you feeling self-conscious on top?

Sometimes I feel that way but most guys are just excited to get you naked and in bed!

You could try the spoon position. Lay on your side with him behind you. You can still control the movement and play around with it a little until you find what feels best for the both of you. He could do some and then you could do some with this position. This is also a good position for noisy beds.

just do what feel right
"always let your conscious be your guide"
;)

as long as a man is gettin laid
(we'll most men I have ever talked to about it"
he will be satisfied one way or another.

Good Luck!

Thanks for all of your posts. My boo tells me to take my time but I don't want him to get bored. I want to be a freak but I just got to dive in (I guess). lol. He has no problem either way & he knows that I want him to tell me if I need to work on anything but I just want to get the nerve to keep up on my side. I'm sure he just enjoys getting some.

On a more personal note, ladies, what do you use to keep your area clear? I bought Bikini Zone cream & the Hair Remove & I use Cocoa Butter, I don't use Razors, but I use Nair but it seems to have the same effect as Razors. Just wondering. I really appreciate your inputs. Thanks.

In regards to the dorms, I'm overseas (military) & living in a dorm room for the next year. I did get on top not too long ago, but it was late, & my bed was squeaking a little too much. We need better beds.

I guess I am a little self conscious but I think it's because it has been a very very long time since I've been intimate before him. I'm comfy on the bottom but I do want to share the load & change things up a bit. I'm slowly getting the nerve. I'm nervous about not being able to get it in although I know it'll eventually slide up in there plus he can help, & ensuring my motion is good; it seems easier when he's on top.

I sometimes get a Brazilian wax professional done but a times I do it myself, I wax most and shave the in-between parts that are hard to wax by yourself. When I wax myself, I use Sally Hansen Extra Strength Brazilian Bikini Waxing kit. The parts I use a razor on, I use the men's Mach III razor, always a brand new blade, I use hair conditioner and Gilette Satin Care shaving cream and then rinse with very cold water. I've never had a problem with razor burn, red bumps or in-grown hairs.

Your boo? Sorry, made me laugh.

Yes, I like a woman being on top. Means I can "coast" for awhile while she does the work. And I dig looking at a woman's body while she rides me.

So...get your groove on, climb on top and ride him. Make sure you put a rubber on his dick every time. You don't want to get preggo before you finish college and start making a buck. It will be deuce difficult to finish that degree with a kid.

Thanks y'all. I recently bought a couple waxing kits. I'll make a note of those items. lol Koolman! I really think he'd enjoy it too. When I'm on the bottom, I mostly have my eyes closed so I don't really think I want him staring at me while I'm on top. I'm working on my Master's so I'm good. I've been out of H.S. for quite some time now but basically kept to myself for a good majority of my 20s'. I'm sure I'll become a pro in no time. lol.

I love being on top and find my lover to be extra stimulated that I take the initiative . It makes me feel like a wild animal and I leave my inhibitions if I have any aside . I would love for us both to cum this way . Feels like ultimate power but in a good and healthy way . My only problem is I have short spurts of stamina . I am hoping practice will make it perfect . Any suggestions ?

I forgot to mention that one of the extreme parts I love about being fucked on top is a hard spanking . I cant seem to get enough ? Are any others interested in this addition to love making or am I alone in my desires ?

I don't love being on top, but hard spankings, YES please! No, you're not alone. There are a few of us ladies on here who have those desires in common. :)

No, your not alone in your desires plus a whole lot more for me. Makes me smile when I look in the mirror the next day and see marks on my body left from the day before.