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Approaching a Stranger for Sex

koolman
koolman
Just curious as to how people approach other people for sex. Before you got to know your SOs, they were all "strangers". Do you hint at it and talk spicy or just say, at a bar or something, "I'm horny and need to get fucked." It's different for women than men, of course. Any woman who is even remotely pretty merely mentions the word "sex" and she's got 20 horny guys slobbering all over her, which she then selects the pick of the litter...with us guys, it seems to be more about confidence and attitude (although having pretty-boy looks and a good bod helps too).
deleted_user
deleted_user
...nest, rather.

86 the pot
koolman
koolman
I know you were talking to Paul, Steph. I just threw my comment in for good measure.
soulsearcher83
soulsearcher83
Oh Steph put you in your place!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Never approached a stranger for sex...for those who have how do you know you won't pick something-up STD/AIDS whatever, after the slam bam thank you ma'm or mister ?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Never approached a stranger for sex. I have a guy friend that does that, and it is just unsafe for so many reasons.
deleted_user
deleted_user
sorry guys I've been out....yes steph is right..I have been conversing with women that are very young..and young people today cant even tell you the top leading stores in the news...unless Britney Spears is heading it or something of the like..

But even then most women are still not well informed about issues that men find interesting..
koolman
koolman
Such as? Business? Politics? Sports? I think, Paul, that you'll find a lot of ladies here who will beg to differ. But, yeah, they're probably over 30.
soulsearcher83
soulsearcher83
I have to disagree. You said you've been conversing with YOUNG women. Well the young generally know next to nothing about the world around them. Ask most college students where Iraq is and you'll see the blank stare. A year or 2 ago I was at work and I made a comment about Cheney. The girl I was talking to looked confused and said, "Who's that? An actor?" *rolls eyes*

But there are exceptions such as me who don't have their heads up their ass.
koolman
koolman
And thus perhaps not the pretty piece of ass you like (although I've met some extremely hot women who are well into their 40s).
koolman
koolman
soul: Who are you disagreeing with? Me? I totally agree with you that most 20-something girls don't give a shit about anything except looking good, finding a guy who looks good, getting laid and getting drunk (not necessarily in that order). Exciting for sex? Maybe (I wouldn't know). But not very inspirational after the orgasm.
soulsearcher83
soulsearcher83
no i was disagreeing with paul and agreeing with you
deleted_user
deleted_user
sure there are exceptions to ever rule but I rarely meet the exceptions.. And i'm not just talking young women.. It's just difficult to find a woman that I can hold a conversation with..

Sure I can always "find' stuff to talk about but does it really get my brain juices flowing..

All I'm saying is a woman doesn't have to carry on a conversation and stimulate me in that area for me to bang what small amount of brain's she has out...
soulsearcher83
soulsearcher83
lmfao, i like your standards
deleted_user
deleted_user
ugh
koolman
koolman
Ugh? Kristen disapproves? This from a woman who on another post was talking about a banana being like a penis-? Trying to get a rise out of you, babe.