Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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koolman 04/02/2008

Just curious as to how people approach other people for sex. Before you got to know your SOs, they were all "strangers". Do you hint at it and talk spicy or just say, at a bar or something, "I'm horny and need to get fucked." It's different for women than men, of course. Any woman who is even remotely pretty merely mentions the word "sex" and she's got 20 horny guys slobbering all over her, which she then selects the pick of the litter...with us guys, it seems to be more about confidence and attitude (although having pretty-boy looks and a good bod helps too).

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Actually I'm trying to figure out a way to limit the conversations I have with the women I have had sex with.......I mean conversation I can get that anywhere...It's why I have unlimited minutes on my cellphone

soulsearcher83 04/02/2008

still confused

koolman 04/02/2008

Why, Paul, do conversations with women you've had sex with start to sound like nagging?

deleted_user 04/02/2008

typically most women are not as informed as men on current events or topics that I am interested in....

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Maybe it's because you talk to young chicks who don't share common interests.

Just sayin.

soulsearcher83 04/02/2008

Exsqueeze me? Did you not notice a woman running for president? We are very well informed, thank you very much.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Let's see. the longest I've ever waited was 6 months, and that was my very first time....

The shortest? Um....A few minutes after taking our relationship beyond friends.

Typically - 3rd date or so......if I see a potential for it to be more than sex.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

I'm not very well informed.

I need a man who is. I'm just the dumb SO with the big boobs and the conagious laugh.

Who needs politics when you have a cha-cha?

kidding

tossedaside 04/02/2008

stephs right if you got the cha cha you can rule the world

deleted_user 04/02/2008

*ahem*

*adjusts tiara*

deleted_user 04/02/2008

*spits water again **** LOL

deleted_user 04/02/2008

*dumb blonde giggle*

soulsearcher83 04/02/2008

what's with the spitting? lol

koolman 04/02/2008

Steph: "Young chicks who don't share the same interests" Or any interests, for the matter, except for looking good, getting drunk and getting laid. Ooh, I'm gonna stir up a hornet's nest with that one-!

deleted_user 04/02/2008

I was talking to Paul, Koolman.

*unstirs the pot and sets to simmer*

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