A: 80's and sunshine
Q: 80's and sunshine, Can ya dig it?

A: sounds nice. i think we are looking at around the same here. going to take the kids out to tie-dye, keep working on the house, and keep working on this egg shell mosaic jar for my daughters teacher.

Q: did you have a favorite stuffed animal or blanket as a child?

A. Yes, 2 bears and a baby blanket, I still have them. A stuffed panda bear and a stuffed polar bear. The polar bar was given to my mom when she was born and it was handed down to me which makes Mr. Polar 84 years old. The panda was given to me when I was born. They are sitting on top of my hutch and they will be the first thing I pack to take with me when I move. My blanket I still have, very torn and worn and safely tucked away in my dresser. That will be moving with me too.

Q. Did you ever do something (sexual or non-sexual) that totally shocked your partner?

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needed that 500 spot for my self esteem. :)

a: yes. a couple of surprises that i think we're pretty well planned out and worked to perfection (those were non-sexual)

q: any suggestions for sexual surprises?

A: Blindfold her and then everything you do is a surpise. But if she hasn't done anal, don't "surprise" her with it!

Q: What's your take on saying "I love you" while in a relationship?

A. Showing love is more important to me than hearing the words I love you. Words are only words if they're not followed up by action. We both say I love you to each other and we both show it.

Q. Do you get sexually aroused by just simple non-sexual intimacy, cuddling on the couch watching TV, kissing, shoulder rub, his/her hand on your shoulder, knee, etc.

A: Yes! But my situation may be unique because we are LD and have pretty intense chemistry; when we're together I kinda want sex all the time.

Q: Have you ever been aroused by someone's talents/intelligence/abilities, in spite of not being initially attracted to the person physically?

A: lol.....yes. many times. i have also found someone attractive and then eventually found them to be really ugly because of their personality or things they were proud of.

Q: are you a crafty person?

Yes I am crafty, inventive and creative.

Q. Do you like people or do people piss you off?

A. The people I'm around, I'm around them because I like them. The people I know that I'm not around, I'm not around them because they crossed my line and pissed me off. I'm 51% sweetheart and 49% bitch, don't cross the line. I don't keep toxic people or negativity in my life.

Q. Do you consider yourself an open-minded person?

A: Yes, I'm pretty open-minded, but on the flip-side, I can be very judgemental of judgemental people, which presents some hypocrisy.

Q: What's your favorite time of day for sex?

A: hmmmmmm. i guess really late night/early morning. like, around 2 or so after a long night of being out and having fun. it used to be mornings, but since having kids i have come to just need to savor sleeping in the morning. lol.

Q: do you leave the house if you know you probably have some minor BO going on from working around the house?

A. Usually no. I'll do a quick washing before leaving the house.

Q. Do you like your first name and if you don't, did you ever consider having it legally changed?

A. Yes, I like my first name, especially what it means ;)

Q. Do you like anal play?