A. Nooooooo. I went to my nieces shortly after my divorce. It was horrible for me, even though the wedding itself was beautiful. I had to walk out of the church it upset me so much.

Q. If you have lots of packages to carry, will you try to carry them all in one trip or comfortably carry a few items then go back for the other items?

A: I will make extra trips.

Q: is it just me or does HS seem quiet lately?

A: It's not just you - it seems quiet to me, too.

Q: Besides being on this forum right now, what else are you doing?

A: sitting on the front porch watching the rain (trying to get motivated to do house chores but it's not working).

Q: do you enjoy watching the rain?

A: I can watch it for a little bit, but I'm pretty ADD, so my interest doesn't last long. BUT, the smell of rain is my absolute favorite smell in world, so I will go out and sniff till I'm lightheaded.

Q: What chore do you hate the most?

A: dishes. i f-ing hate dishes.

Q: have you ever tried to yawn while doing crunches? it doesnt work very well.

Des. i agree with you about washing dishes, but i saw this sign one time at a church and it has stuck with me. So now doing dishes is fun. the sign read.....Thank God for dirty dishes, means you had something to eat.

Q. Would you rather had a passionate undying love, or incredible mind blowing sex?

A: I would choose Passionate undying love because if I have this, the sex would be mind blowing.

Q: if your spouse/partner requested, would you allow them to have sex with another party?

A. Tough question, depends on why and the circumstances. We've talked about having a FFM 3some, no actual plans for one, we just talked about it, we've fantasized about and neither of us is opposed to it. In a 3some situation, I would be game for it. In a one on one situation if I'm capable of having sex, still wanting sex, still enjoying sex and keeping our sex life new and exciting then no. If I for some reason wasn't capable of having sex either physically or emotionally then yes he could get his sexual needs met elsewhere.

Q. Does your partner (or former partner) have any nude photos of you?

Noooo, there are very few pictures of me anywhere - clothed or naked. I used to rip them up.. The downside to digital photography is that unless it's in your possession, you can't erase it from the world.

Q. Did you ever have a crush on someone online?

A: I have talked to some men online that I think have very attractive qualities but I don't know if I would call it a crush.

Q: what is your favorite TV show?

I don't watch alot of TV, but my daughter and I watched "Desperate Housewives" together religiously. I'm sad it's over for that reason.
The only other show we still watch together is "Castle".

Q: Women: Have you ever used a chainsaw?
Men: Have you ever gotten a mani/pedi?

A. Yes but I'm not saying where I buried the body.

Q. Is there anything you know about someone close to you that you wish you didn't know?

A: yes. my cousin and his wife messaged my husband and i on a swing site. we have no pics of our face and fudge our age and location just a bit for that very reason. (shudder).

Q: vanilla or peppermint?

Peppermint ice cream, yes. Peppermint candy, yes. Peppermint tea, no.

Q. Are you a flirt?