Healthy Sex Support Group
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My current partner has a trait I've never encountered before and I'd appreciate others' inputs on it.
She does not like anything but a penis in her vagina. No fingers and no toys. I've asked her about it and she says they "don't feel right", but can't define "right". There's plenty of lube so it isn't a friction issue.
Any thoughts or experiences with this?
She does not like anything but a penis in her vagina. No fingers and no toys. I've asked her about it and she says they "don't feel right", but can't define "right". There's plenty of lube so it isn't a friction issue.
Any thoughts or experiences with this?
Foreplay she loves, so long as the focus on on her nipples (very sensitive) and clit. She gets very wet and is actually quite proud of it. She also knows she smells and tastes yummy and we both enjoy me going down on her. She doesn't have a IUD, so that's not it.
I've never gotten more than one finger half way in before she stopped me, so I know it's nothing I've done, but the thoughts that it may be linked to her past are good ones. I'll explore that with her. I've recently considered it may be a perceived hygiene thing, too, as she is a bit of a germ-a-phobe.
Chelsea, she has issues with tampons, too. Sees them as a necessary evil.
Thanks, everyone. You've opened avenues of exploration and discussion. :)