Also not very bright if that's the best idea they can come up with. You could probably make more money dealing drugs in the time that they spend waxing their legs. (Um, I'd better stop there, I'm giving this a bit too much thought!)

Yo, can I get a quarter sack?

money doesnt mean alot but if he is totally broke all the time and not trying, im damn sure not going to support his ass. i find that i am attracted to guys who have less money tho than rich guys because they arent as conceided and they usually have more time to be with me.

What say you of a man that spends a lot of time with his girlfriend, eats her food, throws things in the cart at the grocery store, but never offers to pay, sleeps on her couch while she's at work, and takes her to fast food for a date?

Would he be considered a gold digger or just a mooch?

*shrugs*

I guess neither. At least he payed for the fast food, and afterall, they went in and everything. Not just a drive-thru date. :)

well in my case it would just be a mooch, i dont have alot of money to dig for. i supported my last BF and now that he has been coming back around, hes only good for one thing...sex...i wont even give him a smoke now. get a job MF and buy your own...guess ive just gotten old and set in my ways...

...and may I ask one more thing (which may end up being rhetorical, if no one responds, oh well)

Okay, question: Would said girl be considered high maintenance if she was dissastisfied by his actions?

Guess so.

Absolutely not, Steph...sounds like it is the other way around to me.

Thanks.

I guess I needed to hear that.

no, it means she respects herself by not being his door mat.

I would apprecaite the man just having a JOB. You know take me to the cafe down the street and buy me a cheese burger. It ain't got to be all fancy. I dated a guy with no job and that shit is whack.

Yes, we don't like being stepped on, do we girls?

I feel a relationship should be pretty equal, no dead horse on either side...

Nah. Dead horses smell.

Don't want any of those.

=\

and they rot...ewww...

Healthy relationships that only help each other...

I'm going to be totally honest here. But read my whole response before you form an opinion...

Yes, money does matter to an extent in a relationship. For many anyways. Each person decides what they can and cannot live without. For me? Well, theres me and 4 kids. Granted, I would get a small amount of child support, but if I feel me and any potential partner would be struggling down the line, (and I've already had one marriage go bad in large part to low finances over the years), then I'm gonna say, "Why bother?"

With that being said, I will say this. I do look at what the guy wears, sure. Who doesn't? But its not always the name brands he wears, but how he is put together. Now, my idea of put together and his idea of put together may be 2 different things. One woman may think he is, and I don't. Its different for everyone. If he dresses nice (and I don't mean name brand, I mean not looking like a bum or slob), then he will catch my eye. Again - EVERYONE has a taste and it is all different.

On the other hand.... if I see a guy in a business suit and huge namebrand watch and briefcase, he- to me - would be intimidating. I would not click with him probably as well. Because I can't afford the name brand stuff and have learned to buy offbrands on alot, so I wouldn't go there either.

I think its just different for everyone based on their taste and what they have been through in their life. That is, after all, all we have to go on.