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tossedaside
tossedaside
Nope aint talking bout gas prices, nothing we can do there.*sucks much*

Ladies and gents, does the size of a dudes wallet or a chicks PURSE, their cash flow, financial portfolio or lack of these things have any bearing on your interest in the opposite sex,sexually speaking. If a dude wears the latest fashion threads and looks to be well to do are you ladies more apt to pursue. Do the clothes make the man? Same thing guys if she is wearing the latest sexy clothes are you more interested or not so much. Guess Im asking if your appearance is, you have money(which I don't) are you more sexually attractive to the opposite sex?
koolman
koolman
Doesn't influence whether I find her sexually attractive, but if she's a total financial idiot, I don't see a future in being with her long-term. When a woman talks financial SENSE, I find that EXTREMELY attractive (now THERE's an intelligent woman!).
deleted_user
deleted_user
Money is nothing more than just a material item. To me needing the latest clothes and fashion is pointless. Someone's character and values is what I find attractive. Oh, and they have to have brown eyes.
;) hee hee
deleted_user
deleted_user
Personally,,,a bloke could have all the latest fashion,,big wad of cash,,and have the personality of a dead fish!!!! Sorry,,,for me,,no amount of money can bring happiness,,it helps,,true,,but it can not bring love and happiness. Give me the personality guy any day
deleted_user
deleted_user
Finding someone attractive b/c of their cash flow is shallow,
an attractive with a great personality gets my vote
deleted_user
deleted_user
nah money dont mean anything to me I would rather a man be down to earth and money somehow usually makes a man think he is bigger than life the only qualitys are honesty, kindness, and well a huge desire to fuck..lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well I agree money's not that important, but I definitely need a guy who's doing something useful with his life - sorry, but I've 'lent' too much money in the past to wasters who really *were* going to get their band off the ground one day, honest .........

As for fashion, give me style and imagination over designer labels any day :)

(And just for the record, if I see a guy driving a sports car I just assume he leaves his wife to do the school run most days .................... not sexy at all!)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well generally speaking women are attracted to men that have money. The mare appearance of having money will lure them. So if you dress like the part you will attract more women.
deleted_user
deleted_user
then you will be attracting shallow ones.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think it's a case of being attracted to money, it's being attracted to a man with confidence. Yes, the two often go hand in hand, but not always.
tossedaside
tossedaside
I understand that you should dress for SUCKsess, but then again I wander if that is a deception that will cause later problems. Lack of trust.
just askin
deleted_user
deleted_user
from where I stand hell I would take a homeless man if he had the qualitys I like...and of course if he lets me push his shopping cart hes a keeper :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why would dressing smartly be deceitful?
OK, from a woman's viewpoint I'd be annoyed if you got settled into a relationship and then turned into a complete slob .................. but it's really not like we look at your outfit and try to automatically work out your profession and earnings.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Alright what do want..to get laid or married?..If you want to get married I feel for ya..If you want to get laid then unfortunately there will have to be a bit of deception.

there is deception on both ends to this "game" and oh yes I do love screwing the hell out of shallow women.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I completely agree with post #9. I'm attracted more to a hard working man than his money, but also what Kool said...I don't want a financial mess.

Lots of my girlfriends over the years would only go for the ones with money and most of them are still wondering if they'll ever find true love. Hmmm...no brainer to me.
tossedaside
tossedaside
paulbear, marriage is the last thing on my mind. And ladies I apologize beforehand, just seems to me there are way to many gold diggers and if your not showing the cash in many different ways, they are off to the bigger better deal.