I think it is possible, he lost his phone, but more likely the newness of the relationship has worn off, and his feelings cooled. He doesn't feel he needs to try as hard. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you, he may be telling you the truth, that he would tell you he doesn't want to talk anymore. Although it is possible he forgets to tell you that. Which is why it is good you tried to get a hold of him. Try again in a few days, and if a week (or two at most goes by), without hearing from him, then chalk it up that he is done. If he tried to contact you a month or so later, he probably is seeing someone else...

Maybe he also doesn't always have time for a 4 hour conversation, y'know? It's the holidays, and people are shopping, making plans, etc. Work can be busy and so on.

I'm a woman and I'd feel suffocated by daily contact, especially nonstop texting and 4 hour conversations. I don't think this is a 'guy' thing. I don't know if he lost his phone or not, but give the guy some oxygen or he'll probably want to run for good.

I can relate to that kind of behaviour.. the guy I used to see did the same to me.. and it wasn't 2 months.. we knew each other for 4 years! Thing is seemed like whenever he felt like talking to me, I HAD to be available, like if he called and I didn't answer he would make such a fuss about it ... but then when we went months without talking, I would email him or text and NEVER get a reply back.. even on his birthday I texted him and had no reply at all!

In my case, he was just playing with me.. but I cannot tell you it's the same with you. Maybe he is just busy and cannot be contacting you very often.. just give it a little time and try to figure out his true and real intentions..

In the end I think that, when you really like someone and want to be in touch, you find a day to do it, even if you lost your phone, had internet problems, etc.. there is always a way...

Thank you everyone! ITs been over a week and nothing from him. I gave up, but my one coworker made a good point. He probably is still with the mother of his children or got back with her. He said men make time to live a double life and probably had a pay as you go phone and did what he could to real me in. And that she probably started to get suspicious so he just turned it off. He said to just move on or if this guy really is serious he better have a good explanation but to be cautious. So i'm moving on.

If it is meant to be, it will work out. I m sorry he disappointed you.

For what is worth, these are my 5 cents: If a guy is interested/attracted AND serious, you will hear from him regularly, especially at the beginning.

If he does this and then stops, that is a red flag that 1) he was not as interested as his behavior showed (a sign of emotional immaturity in my view); 2)he was interested but is not anymore (a sign of emotional issues like impulsivity and lack of care for other people's feelings); 3)he was and is interested but he does not want a serious relationship with anyone right now, so he's withdrawing.

Whatever the reason, be thankful it happened this early before you got more attached and more hurt.

As a general rule, if you have to worry and wonder and question yourself and his morals/motives, it is not a good sign. The best response is to take a step back and detach yourself. Don't contact the person. Let him show you with his actions if he deserves your affection. If he doesn't or does inconsistently--run away--fast!

Hope you get over this soon and find a guy that deserves you!

Maybe he is sick or did lose his phone. But in today's world of facebook, email, text, skype, twitter it seems a little strange that u can't get in touch with him. I think you should be more secure in yourself and not think the worst until it happens ya know?? He obviously cares (hence the love songs lol). Maybe you should explain to him how it makes you feel when he does this. Ask him to just text you and let you know he needs a day or two. Doesn't seem like too much to ask. Hope he has already gotten in touch.