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What to do?

OhCaptainMyCaptain
OhCaptainMyCaptain

I got with this guy almost two years ago when we first got together he was amazing and super sweet then he started making jokes quit and started pot again and laughed when his friends said stuff about me. He would say stuff likegod I feel like your personal slave can't you do it yourself I just sat down then quit crying are your gonna cry the rest of your life your to senstive harden up. A few nights ago we were at the park with 4 of his friends and one kept calling me sexy my boyfriend walked up smiled at him and grabbed my but and said yea she is and we got in the playground on the swings and sat down then he started laughing and said hey I got me a princess then his cousin said no more like the princess from princess from princess and the frog after the turned into the frog they busted out laughing and he said good one. He tells me here and there that I should get a boob job to get them bigger and to shave and little things. He says things then a few minutes later will come up and say sorry and how much he loves me. What do I do?

sjs777
sjs777
you need to be happy for you - his requests seem all about him
rmb
rmb
What do you do? You dump his immature, disrespectful ass.
jennifera
jennifera
Dump his ass. Mature men don't treat women like this. He has no respect for you.
Show some for yourself and walk away.
Cora_Belle
Cora_Belle
What should you do? yeah, dump his ass.
Chasity
Chasity
Not a tough call at all. Dump him. Save yourself now and don't look back. Everything you wrote spoke volumes as to how much he doesn't care about you. Take care of yourself by moving on.
shardae_lk
shardae_lk
He seems selfish
Summer8289
Summer8289
By what you are saying he seems #1 immature..#2 Disrespectful... He doesn't show respect towards you as a person. #3 Jerk...He shouldnt be telling you to shave or get a boob job.

Love yourself and leave him, you don't deserve that plus there is better guys out there , even though it may feel like there isnt.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I have to agree with what others have said sweetie.... He sounds like a jerk who has huge woman issues.......xo
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