Hello everyone it's been a while but I just want an input I've been put in a traumatic experience where a girl who told me she was bicurious.. and I told her I was heterosexual. Some how down the line.. she ask me can I be attracted to her.. can I try to like her.. and etc. So I'm confused like why would someone try so hard knowing the person you like is heterosexual and doesn't swing that way. It doesn't help that this person has assaulted me sexually  :( without my consent knowing I told this person multiple times I was heterosexual. it doesn't help that I didn't even know she was romantically interested in me because she never told me. All she told me was that she liked me? only thing I can assume is she likes me in general. like I know not everyone is going to like me that's people pleasing and unrealistic. You know I just decided not to look to deep into things. Keep in mind I told this girl multiple times I'm not trying to date at all.  Its the fact she has twisted my words around.. and  also has said I never told her I was heterosexual. This is just weird to me.. I felt lied too if you were so keen on trying to have sex with me.. and you knew from the jump I was heterosexual .. that's not bicurious that's straight up bi plus this girl had a boyfriend. like I feel targeted.. I didn't hang out with her until July before she told me she liked me ( again didn't clarify to me at all.) I felt like I was being groomed. this is someone who i met last year at school who i will have conversations with  but weren't friends. She was a friend of an accquantice of mine.   granted we did exchange social medias. I also have given her advice before with her boyfriend. I don't even text this girl everyday, every week, call her, or facetime her. So i think its sketchy how can someone be interested in someone who barely even interacts with her . I mention of trying poly though. she ask would i try i said yeah i would try poly. so somehow she assumed we were dating.. and so did her boyfriend. here's the kicker i never got ask out. I also told this girl i wasnt trying to date.. so again how in the world did this happen? i have establish boundaries the girl disrepected them .. and the guy didnt want poly but still went along with the girl.  the girl was like i'm confused one minute you say you want to date the minute you don't. like y'all i clearly stated from day 1 i was heterosexual, that i didn't want to date..  so i dont know how does me wanting to try poly means i'm going to date her. It also didn't help the guy also sexually assualted me.. like you don't want poly but your girlfriend does.. then tells me she's self-centered and a narccisit. others have said i was being set up, and groomed. Because it didnt work out the way they wanted that's why i got blocked off and cut off by both of them.