My ex and I were aries female, libra male, which is supposed to be a good combination.

Did I mention he's my ex?

Good luck. I think that you have to work hard at all relationships.

Aries are generally bad news. Scorpio is good though.

;(

Date of birth determines who we should be with... Nah.

Either we click with people or we don't.Either we work out our differences or we don't. People and relationships are just complex. That's the unmagical reality.

I am a scorpio female, and my fianc is an aries male. Our relationship is unique- but strong. We balance each other well. I am his rational side- He is very strong willed and thick headed... and very rough around the edges. He doesn't hold back what he has to say- even if it may be mean or something he should keep to himself. I help him tame that. I don't change him- I would never want that- I enhance him. I soften his rough edges, and help him see there are different ways to get the same result. He calls me his angel. I think your relationship can work, you just have to be patient and very understanding.
This is a great article- https://www.astromatcha.com/astrology-compatibility/aries-compatibility/aries-and-scorpio-compatibility/

Thanks for the feedback everybody. I definitely don't plan out my life using astrology lol ;)
But there are qualities for each sign that just seem to ring tried and true. Racing girl, thanks for the link. It makes a ton of sense. It does seem that I am able to speak with more logic while he just lets his angry emotions rule him, but it only works to an extent for us.
I was just genuinely curious to hear from others in the same boat :)

I'm a Taurus male and was with a Scorpio female. Sometimes we really clicked like soul-mates, sometimes I was from Mars and she was from Pluto.

you mean Venus

aries usually jump first and think later whereas scorpio is opposite- they are thinkers, they dissect information to its very core, scorpio are said to be loyal wheras aries tend to have a roaming eye, not to say they act on it, but scorpio are very suspectful as it is. To see if u r compatible u can check astro.com and get a free compatibility reading , theres a science to astrology - no two aries are exactly the same or scorpio, time and location of birth play a role as do life experiences.

You're welcome. I'm glad u posted it. It's been a while since I thought about astrology but I agree that it's pretty remarkable how people are true to their sign- even if they have never even heard of astrology. It's a very interesting topic.... oh wait, lol there's the deep thinking scorpio coming out in me. I've known people that get stoned to be able to think "deep", I've always said it's not necessary for me, it comes natural.