Healthy Relationships Support Group
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Hello all, so i have been dating my boyfriend for a little under a year. 2 times a year we go long distant for a couple of months do to work and such reasons. When we go long distance he becomes extremly moody. All day today he has been telling me he misses me when he doesn't talk to me and all kinds of other stuff. Later in the eveing i strted stressing out about something that was totally out of my control at which point he had gotten all mad and said don't worry about it and its not my buisness, which is true but one way or another its going to effect me. He then proceeded to say ill talk to you tomorrow and basically hung up and that's the last time we will talk tonight. Sometimes his moodyness makes my anxiety so crazy and i wish icould just understand what he is thinking when he gets like this so it would be a little easier for me to back off and stop thinking so much about it.
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Now that I am not talking to my whatever best friend, I realized that her life is full of drama. I had grown tired of hearing her stories about her boyfriend many months ago. She basically had been monopolizing conversations for that long too. She pretty much stopped asking me questions about me. I passed her in front of her classroom the other day and didn't even look at her. I am...
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affect you.Also his moodiness is his way of handling his emotions in any given situation
.It is not directed at you,You are taking it personally and while
it is understood why this can make you feel anxiety more directly- you have to be logical,This used to happen to me- if my significant other would not sound
happy Omg I immediately would think he was mad at me- nope had nothing
to do with me.When your boyfriend gets in his little mood unless he says its about you- dont sweat it and give him some space.Moods pass.
Above all Stay Positive, Upbeat when it is long distance and focus on Positive Loving Energy. Hugs- your good no worries,