just needing to get something off my mind. Now this is for all the women out there who HATE it when they are with a bloke who watches videos of other women pleasure themselves instead of showing their missus the respect of not looking at that crap. I mean especially when we have expressed our views on the matter. Like how fucking disrespectful do they have to fucking be?!? I don’t watch hot bodied men play with their big thick cocks, I could and enjoy it but I don’t like how it makes me feel when I have a partner, it feels like shopping for something I can’t have. Also it’s not used as porn to get into the mood for fun bed time it’s videos sent by other males via messages like: “hey look at this apparently hot chick get naked and make weird “pleasure” faces while doing weird “dance” moves then finger herself with more fake pleasure faces.” Yeah that seems so much better then actually putting in a little effort into the relationship and having a real chick that you considered hot (otherwise why are you with them?) and actually get your dick wet then using your hand over some video. Don’t get me wrong I don’t have anything against porn itself and it’s fine to watch consistently when your single, but when you have a missus then show her the respect of not looking at other women. When in a relationship porn should only come out and be used if both are comfortable with it and for sex time not for the sole purpose of one persons pleasure. 

I don’t care if you don’t agree with me that’s your opinion but it’s my belief that a relationship needs respect and if someone isn’t happy with porn (or at least a certain genre) in the relationship then that should be respected. It’s not the end of the world not being able to see naked women finger or fuck themselves. I can’t believe it’s that big of an ask!! 

Yes I found out my boyfriend is receiving these type of videos again and it disappoints me to my core. Yes I snooped through his phone to find this out and the only saving grace this time round is that he at least received them from another bloke this time and not a female. He is aware i look through his phone and he is aware he is welcome to go through mine. Again don’t care if you don’t like that fact but being proven that my trust and feelings are being betrayed just fuels my belief I’m right in doing so. When I don’t feel betrayed then I can go months without looking but as soon as I get the feeling something isn’t right then I do and 9 times outta 10 I’m right in my feelings. 

Also im aware we all have our differences in opinions and for those out there who don’t have a problem with their men looking at other women fucking themselves then good on you but I’m not like that and find it disrespectful, I have expressed my views on this with my partner and still he does it. I hate to say it since I have two boys to him but this maybe the straw that broke the camels back.

Rant finished