My ex Amanda D messaged me today. The one who tried to make me look like a prick, the 1 who cheated on me and lied about it constantly, the one who never admitted it. The 1 who made me feel like I was less than dirt. The one that I could have went off on. I could have said the most horrible things to her, so easily the thoughts were at the tip of my tongue but I stopped myself.
She sent me a message saying hey how's it going. I miss you and thought I'd say hi. I wouldn't mind taking to you so we can clear some things up.
I haven't muttered a word to her in 6 months. We had a long overdue brake up that really hurt me a lot. The only thing I could think to say to her as a response was this:

I'm doing fine. Everthing is fine. Let's do what we've been doing and pretend the other doesn't exist.

Her response: Umm OK.

This woman put me through hell and I chose not to do the same to her because I'm better than that. Man! All of the things I could have said, all the hurtful angry things that could have come out of my mouth but didn't. And me stating the fact that I don't want anything to do with her made me feel so much better about the situation.
I jist had to let this out. Thanks.