Hi.  I'm new to dailystrength.  Just joined today.  I joined this particular group because, well, I don't know how to build healthy relationships.  I can't afford to go out to meet new people, so I've been looking online for the last few years.  With a few exceptions, this hasn't gone well for me.  I've met people, but really none of them where "quality people".  I'm not a snob.  I don't consider myself superior to anyone.  That said, I have standards for the kind of people I want to socialize with.  So, my struggle is that I'm a very sexual person, and anytime I meet an attractive woman online, only seeking a platonic relationship, I just can't help but try to pursue a sexual relationship with them.  Hell, the last girl I met is married and has a child, and, despite our both seeking a strictly platonic relationship, we ended up sleeping together and developing feelings for each other.  Now, I've stopped talking to her, because it was just too hard to want someone whom I couldn't have.  That, and I didn't want to break her family up by fucking up her marriage.  So, this is my struggle.  Anyone else in the same boat?