Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
So I wanted to test a theory and I was 100% right... Gave in or so he thought and (day1) went and got ice cream after work with him, he cooked dinner, and we had wine and a decent night... (day2) he cooked again and another decent night... (day3) leaves out and doesn't come home till 6 something in the morning. I'm not mad because this is typical him... I was just playing Madden and lost track of time and I'm completely wrong, blah blah blah... (day4) leaves out and doesn't come home till 8 something in the morning... I was working on a tattoo.. so where's your money? Are you telling me you stayed out all night and morning for nothing? I'm the only one working and bringing money into the house and putting gas in your car that I bought (because OMG that is a whole another story in its self but I'll explain in another post)... and he just runs the gas out... Are you still gone give me the money to go get my tooth pulled? He asked me and I simply said no... so you just gone let me sit here in pain? I would never let you sit in pain... You've been causing me so much pain and have the nerve to say that... I got so angry seeing red I don't know what all I was saying but I got so lightheaded that I started throwing up...(day 5) leaves at 6pm and doesn't return till 6 something almost 7am today! I'm over it and let him know I don't want to be with you anymore and my heart doesn't feel for you I'm done.
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And I hope everyone is having a nice weekend.We're going to the Squatch Fest! (Bigfoot)
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So I have been having a lot of health issues and my cardiologist felt that he didn't get clear enough images of my heart in the office, so he wanted to do a Trans-esophegeal heart Echocardiocgram in the hospital. I was pretty nervous about it, because I've never had any procedures related to my heart or any other major organs. I've had knee surgery and thyroid surgery, but to me anything to do...
don't be afraid of being alone, no good piece of shit men can sense that and will use it to control you
You deserve so much better..... Big hug
This post reminded me of why I chose my DS name jojored. My husband at the time was being such an idiot that I literally saw red. That kind of intense anger is absolute proof that your body is saying - get him out now! Be strong!!