Is he the same boyfriend who said he was never on facebook?

Your intuition is telling you something. You know what you need to do, even if you can't quite make sense of "why" he does what he does. Your other posts show that he has checked out.

Yes it is gutted. He liked on December 3rd

It means the relationship is over, but the current status quo is such that he can go on about this way. Eventually you will put 2 and 2 together and realize the same.

But, hey, keep clutching at straws.

The reason I clutch is because for the past two nights we've been getting along great. Even being intimate again. He tells me he loves me all the time now and we laugh like nothing happened. Then I found that he like a picture for another woman.

Then maybe you should be having these conversations with him, and not DS.

I agree with Cora_Belle. If you like the guy, then don't complain about him. If you don't like what he is doing, then leave the idiot.

Between this and the other stuff you posted, you have to know he doesn’t respect you or the relationship. Don’t spend the rest of your time being grateful for the little crumbs of affection he periodically throws your way. Be strong, Expect better for yourself.

You're right...it's over sorry to take up people's time.

It is never wasted time if you learn from this. Use this experience to learn what you require in a relationship. Then don't settle for anyone who doesn't provide your minimum emotional requirements.

Our emotional health is analogous to our physical/nutritional health. We all have daily minimum nutritional requirements - the minimum amount of vitamins, minerals and nutrients that keep us healthy and our bodies working their best.

We all have minimum emotional requirements - the minimum amount of affection, support, validation, understanding, etc that keep us content and our emotional well being at its best. Every one's emotional requirements are different - I may require more or maybe less affection than another person - but it is up to me to find what meets my needs.

And if someone can't or doesn't meet my requirements, it is always best to cut my loses and find a someone who can. This is why "just settling" is counter productive.

I will also hazard to guess that there never was a true emotional aspect to this relationship; it was only grounded in physical attraction and sex. And maybe some financial benefit to you.

The point is you asking a bunch of strangers why he does this and why he does that and really it doesn’t matter why. What matters is you don’t like it but you seem to want so badly for it to work out with this useless turd that you would rather take it than have to tell him, I don’t like how you treat me so I’m done.