Wow..I hate to even think like this but not quite 2 years into our marriage I think it's over. My husband doesn't want to admit it because he is so co-dependent and knows if I leave him he will have to go back to an uncomfortable life. My main issue is his inability to keep a job. He will start something then quit or get laid off he has had plenty of interviews with no call backs. He has a felony for identity theft so that's why he has no got some of his jobs. He always lands these temp jobs that end after a few months. He starts a new permanent job on Monday. Keeping my fingers crossed! I told him I'm giving him a year on this job to show me he really is wanting to work and provide for our family. He also has 2 children he doesn't see that live 4 hours away. He won't even call them etc. I am really trying to encourage him to not be a deadbeat dad. We have no children together but I have 1 son, which brings me to the next issue. I've been really falling back in love with my son's father the last past year. He unlike my husband is an involved father. He really loves our son. I never allowed myself to heal after we broke up. We had so many plans together and dreams and that all came to a halt. My husband knows about these feelings and encourages me to resolve them so I can move on. Not sure where this is going. I've built up so much resentment toward my husband about being unemployed on and off for the last 3 years that I'm losing my attraction to him... the chemistry is gone.