Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
Today is another day of asking myself, Who did I marry?.... It was all great when I was constantly sitting home with the kids blowing you up asking where u at if u even answered... It was all good when you went out and cheated with 2 different females; 1 gave u a STD (that u gave to me then tried and lie to everyone saying I did the cheating) the other female tried to put a baby on you that may or may not have been yours but she lost it... I took you back because maybe just maybe u actually learned your lesson n you actually missed your kids your marriage? I took you back on the strength of our kids to work on things, but no you do/did what you always do... Do things right for the moment/ act like a husband and father for the moment then go back to being a liar... But now I don't give you this give you that listen to you or even care about what you do or blowing up your phone when you leave and gone for hours sometimes not even coming in the house to the next day not hugging, kissing, saying I love you, not sleeping in the same room, not spending time it's a problem? All along it's been like that but the only difference is I don't GIVE anymore. I don't cry, argue, or fight anymore. It's my time to be selfish and keep all my love and happiness to myself and that way it want be misused, disrespected, unappreciated....
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I don't really know how to label this but I having a rough week and I can't say it's one thing.... I have a lot on my plate which is nothing new and I try to cope in many positive ways and do but I still have my moments.My kids more so my daughters talk to me about everything which I know it's cause of comfort and we are close.... however I really struggle with the venting about their dad which...
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I did the dumbest thing today. I charged my earbuds, unplugged the block and put the block in my little bag instead of the earbuds. I wasn't happy about that when I got to the gym. What a dummy!
Wow! That sounds complicated! Way too complicated for a summary judgement of Right or Wrong. Every sentence sounds important enough to be worthy of its own chapter with many summary judgments in each chapter. It has been said that the parent of a 2 year old passes more judgments in a single morning than the U.S. Supreme Court makes in a year.
This is a good place to sort through all that. Hope you feel safe to do so here.
Welcome aboard.