Hi Guys. Whiny old me here again. Just feeling frustrated and hopeless about my lovelife. I have been single for the longest time and have wanted to find that special someone, but it just doesn't seem to be in my destiny. If I date a guy I like, he doesn't return the sentiment (or really only just wants to sleep with me). If I date a nice guy that I don't like.. well clearly it doesn't work out. Why can't the feeling ever be mutual? I have been in love once, a true good and deep love that will never go away... but my stupid young insecurities let go of him. I worry I will never find that again. Its not like I require perfection, but just someone that I like/love enough to ignore the things I don't like about them. Thats how I feel about the guys I do end up liking, but I guess the feeling isn't mutual, not that I'm ever privy to their point of view... I am not good at meeting people either. I am shy, introverted, and not a natural smiler. The looks that I get when I smile at people (or at least I think that is what I'm doing) are not always smiles... Guess I'm just giving off the wrong vibe, but I just can't find the ability to change it.. I don't know where to meet guys either. I have done meetup groups, but don't meet any potential candidates there, I volunteer, again no potentials, I go to the bar.. ok potentials but no staying power, and I meet friends of friends but my friends refuse to set me up (not outright, they just say they would and don't). Does anyone have any advice on how to meet the man of your dreams and how to hold on to him?