I’m upstairs in bed while he’s downstairs watching TV. He’s had a long stressful day at work I know and I’ve been in the house nice and relaxed. He’s got a high pressure job and I know it must be hard. So I’ve cleaned the house, walked the dogs, make his favourite dinner and baked banana bread for him coming home. And now we’re at opposite ends of the house. He’s like a human dementor, he sucks out all the life and happiness. We never have sex anymore, if we ever go out or do anything it’s because I’ve planned it. He’s just a roommate not my partner. But I’m in love with him and I just want things to go back how they used to be when he was more carefree and happy. I’m a mess and I can here him in the living room watching cartoons. I just want to die. There’s no way I could afford to live on my own, I couldn’t take the shame of moving back in with my mam. I have to stay here but it’s so miserable. I wish we were a happy healthy couple.
Been married 12 years and my spouse refuses to talk about our issues. Recently he told me that if i bring it up more than once its stupid. But, hes happy to talk about whats going on with our kids and extended family over and over. Im alwats the initiator when it comes to aknowleding problems and fixing them. Ive been to thetapy, pastors, read countless self improvment and mariage books. Im...
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