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While I like men, I tend to not seek them out for friendships.
It has been my experience that real men like a lady that is a WHOLE person. That being a lady that is fully capable of existing on her own. She may choose to be with a male friend,but certainly does not NEED him in her life. That also works the other way as it should. In that case I believe a relationship of friendship will work. If either one becomes needy and loses their wholeness the relationship is doomed.
I don't know any male friend of mine who doesn't think about having sex with me. They don't all tell me this, obviously, I just know what they are thinking by their body language.
This is why I don't hang out with my male friends without my partner present.
But I think most men have an aim of becoming friends with a female simply to have sex with her.
In my new relationship, my man has female friends and I am still not sure what to think, because he is not the cheating type. I just keep my eyes open and trust my intuition.
Can't help it... I feel like the Females just Deserve to Know what Passion really feels like!!
And when a Male is Extremely Confident in Himself-there is no Boundaries.
I actually don't believe all men befriend women just to have sex with them. I do agree people need to get on the same page up front about what they are looking for.. But I think it's unusual to maintain close platonic relationships especially if both people are single. Not impossible, but just takes kind of evolved people.
Oh and I will say that I am a Man, I am NOT gay or bi and I always try to respect anyone (male or female) that returns the respect. All of my female friends are beautiful, but that dose not mean I want to sleep with them.