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So I've been in this relationship with this amazing guy for three months already. His name is Jimmy. I'm deeply in love with him already. When he and I first met, I knew that it was love at first sight and that he and I were meant to be together. He told me after our second month anniversary that he was going to be moving to Florida next May. I was super upset because that meant that I wouldn't be able to see him in person as much. Then we got talking about it and thought that maybe we could move in together next May. The night of the 15th, we had a huge argument about what my dad said towards this coming weekend. I wasn't sure if we were going to stay together after having the argument but we are still together and growing stronger together. I had told Jimmy that I didn't want to move in with him until I was done with my education, but last night, I went for a walk and realized that I wanted to move in with him sooner than what I had told him in the first place. So he and I will be moving into an apartment together next May. I'm both really excited about it and unsure about it because I'll have to say goodbye to my parents (until I visit them again) and to my dog (if he's stilll alive by then). I mean, I love Jimmy so much and he means the world to me. The only thing I feel like I would absolutely need before I move in with him is my license and a good paying job. Right now, I'm a bagger at Hannafords in NH (Don't want to give the exact location of where I work). I am getting paid $9.25/hour and on Sundays, I get paid $9.45/hour. I'm working three days a week right now because I was attending school one day a week and I would get a ton of homework because I was taking two classes in the course of one day/week. So yeah.
How do I get past the worry about my parents and what they might say about me moving in with my boyfriend? How do I get past the upsetting feeling I have about saying goodbye to my dog? Any advice you may have after reading this, Please, any advice is welcome.
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Good Thursday to you!I've been watching a really long trial on Youtube these last couple of nights and will finish tomorrowHopefully I'll be in the land of nod soon and I hope my peeps are having sweet dreams followed by a great daySending hugs...xo
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Hey all, i know its been quite awhile since i posted on here. Its been a summer all right. Its been something else........... You know how they say not to open the can of worms? Well a few months ago i decided to find out what my due date would have been for my first baby, the one conceived by r***. My baby would have been due on March 4th of 2006. They would be 20 years old. I was R**** on June...

A. you've only known him 3 months
B. They're thinking/feeling this is just puppy love not deep love because you've only know him 3 months
C. Before making a huge commitment like that you should date him longer so you really get to know him and what makes him tick and vice versa
D. You had a huge argument already over something your dad said
E. You're giving up your education for someone you've only known 3 months
Education is SO important now more than ever in this country! If he can't respect your wishes while you finish your schooling than he's not a good boyfriend no matter how cute or whatever else. Relationships are about compromising so it'll grow well. I was married to someone who told me f**k school and get a job, well needless to say after he said that (and other stuff) I was filing divorce papers!
You only get one life and there are no do overs. Imagine yourself 10, 20, 30 years from now and sure you can be happily married to him with kids, dogs, what have you, but I'm sure there'd be times when looking back you'd have some resentment and kicking your butt because you gave it all up to move in with him. I'm the queen of romance, however in the end you have to do what's right for you first and foremost! So I say finish your education and date him. If after you've done that and the love is still there then still take some time to decide if you really want to move where he is. Just my 2 cents...
I think what stood out to me the most Gregs is 'there are no do overs'..... Another hug sweetie.....xo