Grandparents Raising Children Support Group
This community is dedicated to grandparents who are the primary caregivers of their grandchildren. In cases where the parents are not willing or able to provide adequate care for their children, grandparents may take on the role of primary caregivers. Join the support group to find support, share your experience, and get advice from other members.
On Monday afternoon my husband shot himself. He was the most loving, kind, thoughtful, considerate person I ever knew. I am in shock. I;m in a fog. I can;t sleep, barely eat, I cry all the time. I loved him so much. Oh how I wish he would have told me he felt so bad. I don't understand.
We are raising 2 granddaughters. They loved their "Papa" more than anything in the world and papa loved them. I told them papa was sick and God wanted him to go to heaven. He would never ever want to hurt them. The kids at school are already talking. I don't understand how he could do this to his girls. He loved them with all his heart. He was such a good role model.
My mother died 3 weeks ago. I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer 2 months ago. He was my rock, He went to my doctor's appointment. I've had chemo, radiation and they're not sure the cancer is gone. He knew that. He was my rock during all of this. He insisted on doing everything for me when I was so sick. He knew how much I needed him and he wanted to help. He wouldn't let me help. I don;t understand.
He was a people pleaser
My husand was smarter than this. . I don;t understand. Why????????????
We are raising 2 granddaughters. They loved their "Papa" more than anything in the world and papa loved them. I told them papa was sick and God wanted him to go to heaven. He would never ever want to hurt them. The kids at school are already talking. I don't understand how he could do this to his girls. He loved them with all his heart. He was such a good role model.
My mother died 3 weeks ago. I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer 2 months ago. He was my rock, He went to my doctor's appointment. I've had chemo, radiation and they're not sure the cancer is gone. He knew that. He was my rock during all of this. He insisted on doing everything for me when I was so sick. He knew how much I needed him and he wanted to help. He wouldn't let me help. I don;t understand.
He was a people pleaser
My husand was smarter than this. . I don;t understand. Why????????????
I've been thinking about you and your family everyday. I pray for you all. I know with the Holiday season coming up, it's going to be very hard for you and them. I'm praying you have family and friends near by that will help you and the girls during this time. Please remember your in all of our thoughts and prayers.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} to you and yours.