i do not want to offend or post in the wrong forum.. but i dont see and support group on this list for spouses.. does anyone here know what the spouse should do.. or where to get support to deal with be married to gambler?? i am trying so hard to be understanding.. he has told me he is not doing it anymore.. but he also has chnaged the password to our acct ...he said he wants to straighten out the problem .. and needs time then i can see it again...it makes me so insucure to not be able to see for myself how much money we have ...and just trust that its going to be ok ...i handed him thre bills at the months beginning and i am trying to trust he will pay them ..but discussing money at all seems to make him very angry ...i see him playing poker all the time .. and i sometimes ask to be sure its fake money he is playing with .. and he seems to be annoyed by this question ...so i mostly just have to pray he isnt still gambling...and try to assure myself it will be ok ...next month our income will fall almost 600$ a month ..he goes on unemployment...even at this pay we end up in a very bad situation at the end of each pay period...he always pulls it out and we mangange but if he uses an money at all after this months end.. we will be in very serious trouble.. he assures me he is a support group and he has quit .. i think i need some support to deal with too.. any ideas?thanks
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