Gambling Addiction & Recovery Support Group
Compulsive gambling is an urge or addiction to gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. A preferred term among many professionals is problem gambling, as few people described by the term experience true compulsions in the clinical sense of the word. Problem gambling often is defined by whether harm is experienced by the gambler or others rather...
I know that some people on here have said is was a very important tool and that it seems like the laws differ in each state about time limits and stuff like that.
http://www.cgcc.ca.gov/?pageID=playresponsibly
I wish you the best and stick with it!
Jay
So far it has worked out well for me..when the year was up in October I decided I was going to stop in...in half an hour my purse was empty..I was so disgusted and angry with myself..the next day I self banned myself for another year and have not been back and am so happy with that decision. I work near there a couple of weeks and if I didn't self ban myself I would be in there spending and LOSING it . I work to hard for my money to be doing that...now when I finish work I drive past and am sloop relieved because the temptation isn't there because I know I cannot go in there..as a matter of fact when I see the full parking lot and am at the traffic signal along with people that just left I wonder how much they lost...Best of luck to you!
If I get caught stepping foot on their property, its a federal tresspassing offense. They could arrest me if I went and got caught. Self banning has literally saved my life. Be strong and know that you can do this!!
Love and hugs
Lisa
I would think, this is my last shot/the last time I could ever gamble.
And I am afraid I would do the "one last time" thing.
I do know that my good friend banned herself, and she can NOT go to the buffet or the banquet room, which doubles as their musical venue. I live in a small town (about 8,000 people) but the closest casino is less than 10 mins away and is used all the time as a meeting place. They have all kinds of things there, from class reunions to weddings. So, I have yet to go back. But, I am not counting out future trips -for ANYTHING besides gambling.
"I accept any risk of potential or actual adverse public notice, embarrassment criticism or other action, including any financial loss, which may directly or indirectly result from the release of this information authorized in this Authorization and Request to Release Information"
That freaked me out. And when I called to ask them to explain exactly what it meant, they said there was no guarantee that my self-exclusion status would remain confidential, and that that part of the agreement protects them from liability. So, essentially, if an employee decided to post something online, or tell my co-workers, or boss, I would have no recourse.
I've worked government jobs before, doing surveys, and I would have gotten fired AND prosecuted if it was discovered that I had revealed any personal information about my respondents.Evidently that's not the case with the casinos.
I didn't look at other states, but that is certainly something to consider very carefully. You shouldn't be shamed in admitting a problem- that's just plain wrong.
That is part of the Kansas form, here's a link to the form:
http://www.ksgamblinghelp.com/images/stories/ks%20self-exclusion%20application%20sample%20secure.pdf
I was so upset to see that! Basically, it says "we'll try to keep this confidential, but hey-people talk, we can't stop that!"
I did look at a few different ones and the language does vary a bit, but Kansas is really something else... I almost see them posting it somewhere.
I agree that you are empowering your future, and respect your decision to self-ban. In my case, I wasn't comfortable with either the passage I quoted above OR this one:
"I release and forever discharge the state, the commission, and its employees and agents from any liability to me and my heirs,
administrators, executors, and assigns for any harm, monetary or otherwise, that may arise out of or by reason of any act or
omission relating to this request
for placement on the voluntary exclusion list or request for removal from the voluntary exclusion
list including the following:(D) the dissemination of confidential information contained on the exclusion list by facilities
under the jurisdiction of the commission to any party not authorized to receive the information
This includes my Drivers license number, my social security number, address, phone number, physical description, date of birth, EVERYTHING someone needs to steal someone's identity.
Just wrong.....