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I completely missed that yesterday was international cat day! Of all people, I should probably know that, but oh well. I had, and still have, a lot on my mind. But, I did see something very rare yesterday. Our first appointment was a kitten visit, and one of them was a male tortie. I've seen articles about them and know they exist, but even with 11 years working in a cat hospital, have never seen one in person.
The reason torties and calicos are "always" female is actually fairly straightforward: the genes for orange and black are located on the X chromosome. Cats have the same sex chromosomes as people: generally XX means female, and XY means male. Also like people, there can be exceptions. We know people can have the following combinations: XX, XY, XXY, XYY, XXX, X, XXXX, XXXY, XXYY. An X chromosome is necessary for a fetus to be viable, so just having a Y is not going to develop to the point of a live birth. Often a single X chromosome results in miscarriage, but if a live birth results there are noticeable disabilities (this is called Turner syndrome).Some of those cause no obvious symptoms, or the effects can be minimal...so this is probably more common than we think, since we don't do a full genetic sequence of every person born. One extra chromosome will usually have fewer effects than 2, or even 3.
Anyway..back to cats. With orange and black being on the X chromosome, a cat needs more than 1 X to display both colors (it's an either/or situation on each chromosome). While female cats develop, the expression of color is "turned off" in one X chromosome in each cell, so if they carry orange and black genes, they can express both. Having white or not is controlled by a different gene, and technically that's what differentiates calicos vs torties. Usually people think calicos are blotches of solid colors (they can have patches of tabby patterned fur too, tabby is the same gene as black fur, but another gene determines solid vs tabby color), and torties are just orange/black randomly mixed, but that's not the case. My cat Alli, who I always called a dilute tortie (dilute=lightening of the solid or tabby colors, she was blue/gray and peach instead of black and orange, this is a separate gene too that any cat can have), was technically a calico. She had a couple small patches of white, but by the time I noticed they were white instead of peach, I was accustomed to calling her a tortie and just stuck with it.
Thus kitten was neutered at a shelter, and the records said it was a routine neuter..we figured they had the color wrong, but this cat is externally male. Actually sequencing genetics in pets rarely happens, but most likely he's XXY-that's definitely the most common mutation that's compatible with his coloring, and he's about 4 .months and developing normally. Realistically, we'll never actually know for sure, but I think it's freaking cool to have seen one. It's *estimated* that one out of 3,000 tortie cats are male (with the amount of cats who are born outdoors and don't survive, there's a fairly big margin of error here).
Here he is:

And now I need to stop nerding out and get my ass moving. I woke up too early, got some stuff done including a little cooking, but I need to go grocery shopping, finish cooking, and hopefully make lunches. Miki will need another walk too. Tomorrow I have the brewery thing that I'm still not looking forward to, but my car needs new spark plugs and something else. My dad told me his friend can work on it this Friday and I need to have $150 cash for the labor by then. Plus whatever the parts my dad ordered cost. He does not understand, even after I got a second job, that not everyone can come up with a couple hundred dollars at the drop of a hat...it's one thing to put it on a credit card, but I need to have cash for this. More than a week's notice would have been nice! I'd really be screwed if I was paid biweekly.
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Another day, another ouchie?My bruised achilles tendon (don't ask) makes my foot numb. Wonky on meds, whacked it.Now, as to fibro:A lot of reports are going around some parts of social media that fibro (and dang near anything else) are caused by post-Covid, post-flu, post-vaccinations, post-pick-something.1. Your risk of death or serious complications beyond "ow, that shot hurt!" are typically...
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Years ago, I won a mirrored armoire from my job. It's in my bedroom but I rarely stand in front of it. Yesterday, I had to have a dexascan done so I had to change into a gown. There was a full length mirror in the changing room. I'm aware that I gained 5 to 7 pounds over the last year from cheating on Keto but I didn't know what it looked like. It was a reality check.

I cannot believe that I made it this far. It has been a month and 9 days with 3 days off. I'm going to stay in tomorrow and do nothing. Not getting dressed, sleeping and enjoying myself.
Car repairs are horrible. It's not something anyone wants to deal with. My car appears to be good for the moment and I am relieved. I am not able to manage unexpected expenses either - I feel you Miki.
I have a client with a female orange cat. The kitten is very cute! I have to lie down before I fall down. I need to pick up a key from a client later. I so don't want to go out again..... Waves!
i'll be back on check-in Monday the 11th. Woot.
Off to do more laundry