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Hi everyone. Last night, I went to let Miki out before dinner, it was already dark so I figured I'd check the trap I have set up in the backyard before bringing her out. Good thing I did because I was about to reach my hand in to move the food bowl to the front (so nothing gets stuck in there all night), and I noticed some movement. Ended up face to face with the tiny baby opossum you'll see below. For reference, the bowl in there is about 4 inches in diameter and when I saw him out of the yard, he left through the chain link, and those gaps.are 3 inches wide at best. Personally, I think opossums are freaking adorable and this is the first time I've seen a baby in person, so I was excited. He's so damn cute to me. He's young enough that he wasn't really bothered by me, and I have a video on my phone of him going right back to his meal, tiny crunching noises and all.
I know a lot of people aren't as happy as I am to see these guys, but whether you think they look cute or not, there's actually a lot of benefits to having them around. Opossums eat a lot of critters that we consider pests, including insects (cockroaches, beetles etc), ticks, slugs and snails, and mice and rats. They'll also eat rotten fruit that's fallen from trees or any other food left out at night-clearly they like cat food. They're also about 97%immune to rabies, and despite having 50 teeth(more than any other land mammal in North America) that look intimidating they’re not likely to bite. Their best defense mechanism is to "play possum", or feign death in the hopes a predator will lose interest.
Other interesting info about these guys:
Opossums are the only marsupial native to North America. Their babies are born into a pouch after only 11-14 days gestation; they're so tiny that you could fit 20 in a teaspoon. At this point they’re essentially still embryos and they continue to develop in the pouch (Google this if you dare, I saw a video of a kangaroo joey from a few days after birth to a few months and they are freaky looking..I made all my coworkers watch it so they would be scarred for life with me). When they’re big enough to live outside the pouch, they hitch a ride on the mothers back
Opossums have a very short lifespan, only 1 to 2 years. This is mostly because of "predators", including dogs, cats and people. Miki actually found an adult in my backyard once, but it survived by playing dead.
The name opossum comes from an Algonquin Indian word, "apasum," which means "white animal"
Their tails are prehensile(a prehensile tail means a tail that's adapted to hold objects, almost like a fifth limb-in some animals they can actually manipulate objects like a hand, others just use them to hold onto things for balance) and used for grasping branches, carrying nesting material, and maintaining balance. Contrary to popular belief, they don't hang from branches by their tail. They also have opposable thumbs on their hind feet that help them hold onto branches.
The opossum is actually a pretty ancient animal that existed along with dinosaurs (this one surprised me, so interesting)
There are over 65 species of opossums but only Didelphis virginana is native to North America. Didelphis means "double womb"-a reference to the pouch as a secondary place for babies to develop, and virginiana comes from Virginia where English colonists first noticed them
So on that note, I need to get moving. I don't have to go into work til 1 (yay!) but I'm up early to run and because I went to bed early and didn't see the text from my manager til after I took my Adderall. I'll work on some burning or take a nap later this morning and take Miki for some longer walks since I'll leave her home instead of bringing her to my parents house for only a few hours. It's supposed to rain all afternoon, remnants of the tropical storm I think...hopefully work will be slow and I can just dick around and get paid for it. Hugs to all, and if I do another check in before Leo is back (fairly likely because I'm up early most days), I'll find a non animal related topic. I chose this one because it just happened last night.

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I just do not think opossums are cute in any way. But they do serve a great purpose, so I’m glad they are around. Glad you have this morning off. Double bonus, you don’t need to go to the parents today. At least in my case I would feel that way.
I’m home alone today. At 6am, hubby and Brewer headed up north to go to family day at E, T1, and T2’s school. Where our son is principal and his wife kindergarten teacher. Hubby took Brewer to son’s house and put him in his playpen. I can’t even walk, let alone go down the steps to take Brewer out. I really wish I was with them.
I did speak with my GP’s nurse this morning, as I was concerned of really having no progress. She said that is normal for a fall like mine, and I should not try and walk yet. Which I did yesterday, and almost fell.
That’s about it for today.
Love to all.
Interesting check in Miki ! I learned a lot that I didn't know about opossums.
I think the adults are ugly but that young one in the pic you posted is adorable. How nice you got the morning off unexpectedly.
My right knee and ankle and neck are hurting badly today. Yay, I don't have PT until Tuesday. But I do have the vestibular exercises to do at home twice a day and it is quite a bit of stuff . I need this vestibular hypofunction to get resolved sooner than later.
Later today my groceries will be delivered . I am working on dishes and other small things around the house on and off. I would like to watch a movie later. I have been watching Paul Newman movies here and there , also Elizabeth Taylor . HBO Max has a decent selection of both.
Merry - hugs. Sorry you had to miss out on the family activity . I have been there many times and it is really hard. I hope the pain from your fall gets better soon.
Hi to Fantod , Lilmissy , Angela, Puppymom, Blue, Twin
I managed to stay awake all day yesterday. That was a first in over two weeks. I felt halfway decent too. Today, not so much.
My partner has a cooking gig at his buddy's burger place on the other side of town. He isn't thrilled but it's money and we need it. He will probably be gone until 9 tonight. He is working all weekend and we will see what happens from there. He just doesn't want to cook anymore but that is not an option unless he figures out something else that at least pays as well.
We had a gorgeous day here yesterday. Almost 70 degrees. Rumor has it that we are going to have rain and snow anytime.
I've spent today working on a backlog of paperwork. My mortgage was transferred to a new servicer. So I had to set up an account with them. And, I had a bunch of stuff to file and/or shred.
I need to go out to the grocery store and get the tag for my license plate. Still have to make a list. My partner put a new battery in my car yesterday and he managed to get the clock working on the dash navigation system. I could not get it to set and just gave up. It's been like that since last year. My nav system will no longer update, it is too old. I never use it anyway - just my phone. He still can't get the date set but I don't care about that.
Merry - I'm so glad that you did not fall again! I hope that you are just resting and coloring. I know it is hard to miss family activities.
Hi Milily- Sorry to hear that your knee, ankle and neck are acting up today. I hope that you find a couple of good movies to watch today!
I have to get my act together and get out before I completely crash. I had a bad night so I am pretty tired. Waves at everyone!