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I've been thinking about getting a dog. Sometimes I really want the companionship of someone who's going to be on my side no matter what. Don't get me wrong my fiance is great but I don't think he really understands what I'm going through. I have some hesitations about getting a dog because I like dogs but am I taking on more work. I don't have small children my son is 15 years old. With that being said I want a dog that is easy to train and that isn't so demanding when I'm not feeling well. We have a very large house and and we live on 2 acres with a large fenced in area. I struggle with not knowing if I want a big dog or a small dog. If I did get a big dog, I want a German Shepherd. If I did get a small dog I want a Westie. The German Shepherd would create more work for me because they shed a lot. The Westie would be great because they don't really shed at all. Please give me your thoughts and input on this decision and if I should get a dog.
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However, if you get a puppy, they are like having a baby. A lot of work. House training, whining, etc. That being said, I love my little JRT who snuggles on the couch with me. She is a heater in her own way and her snuggles get me through the day. I feel many times that she is my lifeline. I have a great hubby and 2 great teenagers, so I have a lot of support, but Molly makes my heart (and body) warm!
Getting a dog is a very personal decision. I hope you make the choice that works for you.
good luck. i find my pets invaluable for emotional health. Also, they make me laugh. cannot beat that... love AND laughter!
Having a puppy is a lot of work. They are like having a 2 year old with teeth on the loose in the house. I like Westies too but they are a high energy dog. I don't think that is a good match for someone with Fibromyalgia. Think long and hard about exercise, cleaning up after them, cost of food and the vet etc. before taking on any animal.
If you insist on having a purebred, look for a dog that that has a calm temperament. One example of a small dog that is fabulous is a King Charles Cavalier Spaniel. A friend of mine who has severe Degenerative Disc Disease has two. They are great little dogs generally and happy to nap the afternoon away.
Personally, I agree with everyone else. Try to find an older shelter dog who meets your needs. There are so many dogs in shelters who need homes. PetFinder.com lets you put in a lot of information to narrow your choices. There are a lot of great dogs in shelters that deserve a second chance. Many times their owners just got sick of having to care for them and dropped them off. Or, they moved and just left the dog behind to starve. The large majority of them don't deserve to be in a shelter.
Good luck with your decision. Take care and enjoy the weekend.
Many shelters look for "foster parents" to take dogs home while they are waiting to be adopted. Maybe you could try that and get an idea of what kind of dog you'd like?
Take care.
My dog is six now and she lets me rest now when I need to. I couldn't do puppy time now. Will your family help?
Next time I get a pet I am going to get a cat - they are easier to take care of (usually) and also have unconditional love. My husband wouldn't let me get another cat because our first cat acted like it was part devil - but he doesn't live here anymore so I could get a pet alien if I want. LOL
High energy dogs would be hard on both you and the dog. I agree one that is older and calm is a better match.
I have two little mutts, they do shed and I have to vaccum everyday.
They are my lap dogs both were rescue dogs. Roxey and Quita. They are both very jealous of each other. I just recently got the second thinking they would keep each other company and play together but they act like two fighting spoiled sisters.
I have a German Shepard and so does my daughter. We have had one since 1979. They are very smart loyal and loving. My dog is so laid back and loveable. A city repair guy got into our back yard without me knowing, he came knocking on my front door and said my Shepard had chased him out of the yard and he had to jump the fence. I couldn't hardly believe that this dog is sweet and loveable I did not realize how much he protects us.
Anyway pets add a lot to our lives and I hope you find the one for you.
I think what some already said is on the dot. A puppy is difficult to train and may bring some stress, so keep that in mind when looking.
Since you're undecided about what kind, maybe go to a shelter a couple of times to look around at all the dogs there. You could also gain incite as to which dogs will shed more. Who knows, maybe you'll fall in love with one and bring it home!
The only downside to a shelter, you don't know how that dog will be once he gets home. Maybe look into some pet adoption programs where the dogs have been with foster families.
I would definitely recommend you get a dog or cat, though. They bring such joy!
If you can teach your dog to fetch and then bring back the toy, the dog will get its exercise with minimal involvement from you and the dog will love you for the interaction.
Pets are of course a personal decision. But when each of our children became very ill, my husband bought each of them a dog when they became bedridden. Yes I had to take the time to house train them, and teach them how to walk on the leash, but they knew how to take care of their owners. That comes natural.
When I received custody of my grandson, who was Autistic. my husband's dog, became my grandson's guardian. He played with him, snuggled with him, and laid down with him until he fell asleep, them came back out with us, as if to say, "OK, got the baby asleep now give me some attention I am exhausted" LOL.
Mini Schnauzers, were recommended for being a sturdy dog. If obedience training is an issue, you can hire someone to do that for you. I had a car wreck in 2011, had injuries including surgery to repair my shoulder. I was in a recliner couch for months. My husband brought me a little Coton de Tuleur. It was a rescue from a bad kennel. Had her house trained and potty trained in a week. She stays were I am 24/7. If I leave she lays down where she can watch the door until I return.
The extra work, is scheduling her day. What time you are going to feed her/him, potty time (I use a potty command so they know what they are supposed to do), if they do, they get a treat, and play time. Keep it on a schedule and the dog does very well, normally. And taking to groomer and vets for annual shots.
I had German Shepherds for years. My first lived 18 years. Great guard dogs and companions. Lots of work in training and exercising. Brushing out daily to control the shedding and the clean up of shedding. People always asked if I had cats because of the hair. Great personality, too much work for me at this stage of my illness. If you go for a German Shepherd, teach it to run on a treadmill. My brother does that with his big dogs. I always did 3 miles a day with my shepherd, but I was in good shape then.
Wish you luck. To me, the unconditional love from a pet is irreplaceable.