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I never waer regular bras now, it's all sports bras, but my regular ones are front-hooks just on principle. So much easier.
Another option is a soft-support camisole, if it won't interfere with bandages or scars.
And if a bra itself is the problem---they have bras for strapless dresses that are backless, and are boned in the front, with wired cups for support. Formal wear departments have those. I had one for a dress once, it wasn't super-comfy on my ribs but it gave me support and coverage without anything on my back. Given the bridesmaid dresses I had to wear in the day, a godsend.
Worse comes to worst? My GP recommended atheletic tape once. Never tried it myself, but if I get desperate, hey, whatever works.
BTW, don't worry about the intro involving a bra, LOL. We intro ourselves talking about sex, IBS, pain, meds, meltdowns, you name it. We're a very open board, no problem:-)
Leo
I hope your surgery goes well Take care.
Order a cup size smaller than you are. Or you won't have the support you are familiar with if you are larger than average.
I live in these things. I do have "going out" bras as well that are torturous on me. Every time sends me into a costocondritis flare. So I try to avoid them if at all possible.
Good luck with your surgery.
Of course, I'm old now, so no one's looking, I figure.