Fibromyalgia Support Group
You're not alone in your pain. Fibromyalgia is a condition that can be difficult to diagnose and manage. If you're trying to cope with pain throughout your body, sleep problems, general fatigue, or other common fibromyalgia symptoms, you're in the right place. The community is here for you to talk about therapies and share your challenges.

I don't know where you live, but in the US, rheumatologists frequently are asked to determine whether someone has fibro or not by doing a bunch of tests for lupus & arthritis and such, and making a determination. Ask for a referral?
Good luck!
My sister, who has had it, too for years (I kept telling her - she kept thinking she had cancer), had a PCP who wouldn't give her the diagnosis because he said there was nothing to treat it with, so why get the diagnosis.
Can you imagine? I urged her to get a new doctor if that was his attitude.
Good luck to you and welcome to the slogging life of a fibro patient waiting for help.
If you want clarification, pick one specialist, get copies of the tests from the other two specialists. Then make an appointment to discuss the results with the one that you picked and get a treatment plan started.
Unfortunately, the days of doctors calling anyone back in a timely manner are gone. They are swamped thanks to an inept healthcare system. And, like it or not, calls have to triaged so the most urgent ones are handled first.
You have to be your own best advocate when managing and seeking treatment for this illness. Take care.