Female Sexual Issues Support Group
Sexual dysfunction or sexual malfunction is difficulty during any stage of the sexual act (which includes desire, arousal, orgasm, and resolution) that prevents the individual or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual dysfunction disorders are generally classified into four categories: sexual desire disorders, sexual arousal disorders, orgasm disorders, and sexual...
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Does anyone else here have this? I was diagnosed with this a week or two ago and I was so happy to finally have an answer after so many years of doctors and dealing with the symptoms. My most prominent symptom being extremely heavy discharge. Really embarrassing =/ I've also been dealing with painful sex, pain with tampons, and random little pains that I didn't know were related until two weeks ago. I've seen several doctors who said everything from "you're fine, nothings wrong" to "this isn't normal, come back and we'll test more" to "you have a sexually transmitted infection, take this" ...Well. I didnt have an infection. Turns out I have an autoimmune disease. It took switching gyns one last time and being referred to a pelvic pain specialist, but I finally figured it out! and I was soo happy.
...Until I started researching online. Turns out the symptoms rarely go away for good. I'll most likely be maintaining them and watching for them. Inserting medicine every night. OH and the pain will eventually get much worse. It will apparently feel like there's glass in the discharge.
I'm really upset, and would love to hear from other people dealing with this. Especially if they're cured! I need positivity and encouragement to get through this treatment.
...Until I started researching online. Turns out the symptoms rarely go away for good. I'll most likely be maintaining them and watching for them. Inserting medicine every night. OH and the pain will eventually get much worse. It will apparently feel like there's glass in the discharge.
I'm really upset, and would love to hear from other people dealing with this. Especially if they're cured! I need positivity and encouragement to get through this treatment.
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I also have an autoimmune desease, so I know what you mean by glad to have an answer, but.....
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Best of all possible luck to you
I have suffered with Desquamative Inflammatory Vaginitis for almost three years now. I have been on the Clindamycin treatment on and off and have now developed an allergy to it. I have worked out with a naturapath a program where we control the symptoms - they do flare up every now and then, but with the herbs and probiotics I usually don't have the inflammation or the burning. If you don't have a naturapath, you can try some home remedies that might bring relief - natural yoghurt on a tampon helps and if you can get hold of a cream (Weleda nappy rash one works) with zinc and calendula oil - it takes away the inflammation. I find that any alcohol or spicy food aggravates and I also need sleep. Incidentally my gynaecologist referred me to the naturapath saying they have had good results. Hope this helps - I absolutely understand how you feel.
Not sure if anyone is still in this thread!
I was diagnosed with DIV a few months ago. I've tried the month of clindamycin but this actually worsened the irritation and symptoms and hasn't helped! I'm praying that hydrocortisone will do something for me! Would be great to know how anyone is getting along with treatment, or if anyone found irritation with the clindamycin!
My main symptom is stabbing pains inside and also a lot of very uncomfortable discharge. :/
I also went to see a great vulval dermatologist a week ago. She said I have developed a vulval excema as a secondary symptom. She provided a steroid cream which works a bit. But the only thing I've found which really feels like it helps the outer skin is in fact Anusol cream for hemmeroids!
Thought it was worth mentioning as I only came to this realisation from trying lots and lots of different things! Xxx
I am very happy to have found this thread. Has anyone done a biopsy? Apparently DIV is a precursor to Lichen Planus or Erosive Lichen Planus. I was recently biopsied and it showed up as Lichen Planus. This means that the vulva as well as the mucus membranes are inflamed causing that crazy discharge. Unfortunately, the steroid ointment did not work for me (clobetasol) and made me itch even more. It was way too strong. Perhaps an antifungal/hydrocortisone ointment would be better? Ointments are preferable to creams- however, that is great that the premarin cream worked! I heard that Emu oil, coconut oil and any other mild barrier cream can help the skin and possibly prevent further damage.
If the doctor hasn't done so already- get a biopsy if you have continuous skin involvement, get a sensitive vaginal culture (SureSwab) and see what bacteria is causing the overgrowth. Then, somehow we have to replace the Lactobacillus to prevent the yucky stuff from coming back. However, there aren't any options for us other than probiotics which have a hard time migrating to the vagina. UCSF is doing a Lactin-V study which will take a few years to come to pharmacies. This is a vaginal suppository of lactobacillus.
I am going to try the clindamycin although it seems from these posts that it really doesn't stick. According to a vulvar specialist, the ovules can be used every other night for 14 days. Did anyone react negatively to the clindamycin with gut issues/yeast overgrowth? A month of clindamycin seems so drastic!
So my doctor thinks I may have a mild case of DIV, but I'm not so sure...
Here's my story in a nutshell: so between January-July of 2017 I had a series of yeast infections, which I finally seemed to overcome by the end of this past summer after taking a double dose of the oral and using probiotic suppositories. After having sex with a new partner in November I got a case of BV for which I was prescribed oral antibiotics, and took probiotic suppositories at the same time. This solved the issue in the normal time frame.
Then in January I started randomly (i.e. not provoked by sex or anything) getting intermittent itchy/raw soreness/ burning feelings down there. I already has an appt. with my gyno to get my IUD replaced and brought up these concerns but she did a visual exam and swab and said everything looked fine so she chalked it up to me being nervous about getting the IUD - which I wasn't very much so I don't think that was it.
Anyways, a week goes by and no improvement so I book another appointment with her and this time she takes my concerns more seriously and concludes that I might have a mild case of DIV -even though I have NO odd discharge whatsoever! Has anyone ever heard of this?
She gave me clindamycin gel, which was bascially 2 weeks of even more pain and burning as it leaked out and no improvement. When I saw her for follow up she informed me I now had yeast! (Maybe my fault from not going on the probiotics this time - MAKE SURE YOU DO THIS if on clindamycin). Anyways, she gave me stuff for the yeast and also hydrocortisone cream to start after the yeast is treated.
I've done a full treatment for the yeast now so I assume that is gone. These past couple days (now 9 days since I took the first of two fluconazole pills) I have mild, but very infrequent sensations of itchiness down there, but overall huge improvement to what it was before. The only problem that remains just as prominent as before is the burning sensation I start to feel a little into sex followed by a severe burning sensation for about an hour after sex is over....
To me this sounds like vulvodynia or vaginismus, and NOT DIV, but I was curious if anyone has experience the same thing. I am so hesitant to do this hydrocortisone cream for a month when I don't feel like it's addressing the real issue and will maybe cause more pain.
It sounds like your doctor is guessing and hasn't actually found the indicators for DIV. A vulvovaginal specialist would be the best way to get a diagnosis of whether you have DIV or another vulvar skin disorder. I will say that I was given hydrocordisone and it worked somewhat, but when I'm stressed and run down is when my DIV flares up (I now know), so they increased my dosage and after a while I realized that the high dosage was making me worse and decided to discontinue treatment. I stabilized a few years ago and now only use the low dose 25mg of hydrocordisone when I have a flare up. I haven't had one in years now, but unfortunately am now in the midst of one. My doctor also gave me a prescription for a numbing cream that I still have and use whenever I have symptoms. She told me (and I have found to be true) that the longer my body stayed in pain/discomfort the more familiar the sensation would become and the more readily my body would return to those feelings, like muscle memory. That the nerve endings get used to the painful sensations and it becomes a cycle. Also, vulvodynia is a blanket term for any unexplained vulvar pain (DIV is one of many possible causes) so it seems like you definitely have vulvodynia, it's just a matter of figuring out what the root cause/diagnosis is. I hope this is helpful. I found it to be really overwhelming and scary at first, so hang in there! I have been symptom free (until a recent stress increase) for a long time, after once feeling like there was no end in sight! Take care.
It is good to read a positive story...I'm just wondering - was there anything else that you think helped your symptoms? I have now tried hydrocortisone suppositories for 21 days but that seems not to have done very much. The main symptom is just a constant burning....
thank you! Xxx
I’m currently in a flair on steroid suppositories. No relief yet. Anyone else feel UTI type symptoms when in a flair? It’s like the entire area down there burns. Feeling like if I pee, I might find relief?
I read tonight that DIV should be confirmed by a biopsy....that has never even been offered to me. I’d love to hear more about the numbing cream someone on this thread said their dr gives them! That sounds amazing right now. Had sex with my husband last night and it was soooo painful. And today has been so sore and burning all day. Anyway, hoping for some feedback. I’m glad to have some other women that understand how hard this can be.
I was reading online someone used tacrolimus 0.03%, so ima ask my dr for that next time. And someone also used clobetasol 0.05%, so ima ask for that too. I’m willing to try everything.
I also want to try the cryotherapy, but the dr told me it’s only for cancer patients. But I might have to fly out to Washington for it.