Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
for years my mother has ignored various warning about my brother being violent and acting psycotic. well about 2 weeks ago he went to work at usual, got drunk with his boss again, he's underage BTW, he comes home grabs his bike goes out for cigarettes. almost gets hit by a few cars since he doesn't know how to slow down. gets to the store some punk guys stare at him he gets pissed. talks shit as usual. calls home bitching about how hes about to get his bike stolen, only he got the wrong #, leaves his bikes outside antagonizing the guys to steal it, guess what they stole it. so he gets pissed like we didn't back him up and calls us back. screaming about how we got his bike stolen, FYI i just got home from the store. i stat behind to put groceries away and my brother and his friends go out to help him, when they find him he threw his phone breaking it he was attacking random peoples cars screaming about how he wants to get hit by their cars running around in traffic with a knife wound in his hand. if your following so far yea he was stabbed by some guy who's car he kicked. immediately upon seeing my our brother and his friends who went to help he attacks them screaming about how hes not a brother hes not a bro his family isn't a family, and proceeds to attack them all repeatedly from behind the entire way home. every single time someone looked away or turned to walk. they get back i go outside to see what happened and i witness a fight and as soon as someone else turned away he ran at them and tackled them down so i run in and got him off where he proceeds to attack me as well now. 3 hours and numerous wounds later including getting a finger messed up to the point it wont heal right, this was also a school night for my brother and his friends who were spending the night not only i have to be up early.it was 1 am when that was finally over with. funny thing is during periods of yelling he was also screaming about league of legends for some reason. stuff like "you cant build a blood thirster like that" and "you cant mid lane as so and so". i mentioned this to a therapist and he says my brother might be schizophrenic. my mother still refuses to do anything, and this isnt the worste, only the most recent. also this happens roughly once a month some bs like this.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
From what you've posted, your brother needs some intervention. I'm not sure why these outbursts of violence out in public have not brought the local police into your situation; if it hasn't already, they may soon.
It's a very dangerous situation for you and I'm sorry to hear that your mother for whatever reasons is not capable of handling her home situation right now. It's a tough situation for you to be in. There are reports that can be made and honestly should. You really do need to speak to another adult closer to you and your situation. The best thing you could do for your mother and brother is to get them the help that they so obviously need.
This situation is way out of hand, and likely to get worse.
When I see an unsafe situation, I prefer to be as far away as possible. I'd rather not be in the same room when the "bomb" goes off.
I also agree with moving out sweetie... Even finding a room somewhere can bring you some peace of mind... You can't change what your parents will or won't do however you don't have to continue to live in this chaos and there is very little you can do other then to report what's been going on...
Some accountability would help your brother perhaps to think about his decisions... I'm sure he needs professional help however again you can't do that for him...
Another hug and a blessing....xo
Dude you've got to tell your brother that if he doesn't learn to rule over himself that someone else will step in and do it by default whether it be The Law, Or another person just as stubborn as he is who can teach him something and it sure don't sound like that boss of his is a good man to work for. Sorry to say it but it sounds like if he keeps going down this road that he will be restraining order material in the making for when he becomes an adult. Someone had got to remind him of his age and the consequences he could face. Maybe even You.