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sweetheart95
sweetheart95

i havent spoken to my dad in  2 months cause everytime we talk it ends up in an argument and i just hate it cause makes me feel deppressed and i am already going threw deppression and he just never understands me and he treats me like i am in lil girl and i can not make plans wit my friends but i want to talk to him but i am scared he just going to get mad at me and we are going to start arguing again , i just  dont know what to do and i am suppose to see him on friday 

Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I'm sorry that you've been fighting with your dad...… I would avoid topics that set off arguments when you see him on Friday

You're an adult and can do as you choose

If he starts to argue at all I would just tell him 'dad I was really looking forward to seeing you today and I don't want to argue... I just want to spend some time together"

Big hug.... I hope that Friday goes well.....xo
GirlinCalif
GirlinCalif
Sorry that you two are fighting. I guess just try to be the *bigger* person and just act nice and happy and have a (fake) smile on your face when you see him. No sense in making things more unpleasant than they already might be. I know it's not fair that you have to do all the work, but maybe just for now you could try it. If one of you doesn't make the first effort... to at least be civil for now... and hopefully a better relationship sometime down the line.... things will never change. Hope things go well!
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