Family Issues Support Group
Family issues is a huge range that go from minor conflict to major misbehaviour and even abuse on the part of individual members of the family occur. Whether you feel you are in a dysfunctional family or you're dealing with a very specific issue, this is the place to talk about it and find others who might be going through the same thing.
I don't know how to deal with my family anymore... Many times I find myself wishing I was adopted... Or not a real blood relative to my family members...
my father is a bastard (i wont get into that now it could take hours but if u really get curios just ask me.) he cheated on my mother who was abused and cheated on and stuff before by her previos husband and father... my fathers married to an ex crack hippie whos children r screw ups. one of her kids married a woman who abused his son, so now there divorced z9for about 5 years now) and living in my dads tiny trailer. my other steb sibling got prego by her bf and is now living with him while having another not so secret bf, while on drugs, while neither of them will get a job cuz a my step sisters a bum, and b my stepsisters baby daddy got some girl prego in high school and he knows that once he gets a job all that moneys going to that kid... one of my brothers moved out is an ultra conservative freak (who i love) but he was a partyer in high school then he met his birth father (who abused my mom) and he went to christian college and is now ultra conservative... my other other brother is a teacher but he was abusive to me and my other brother when he was a teen, and im not aloud to talk about it to any1 because it might "ruin his chances of getting a job"... hes better now tho... my other other other brother is in the army... hes 19 a total pimp (wich i hate) he recently broke up with his fiance... hes a druggee but wont telll me... but we had a mutual friend, and he went to the high school so i know... and then theres a million more messed up family members... its hard to explain how messued up we r... but we all get together round chrismas (cept mom. shes their for the half my dad isnt) and then basically my whole familys drunk they all have their current gf's and bf's, they all hate eachother, and their all crazy... most of them have been abused, or r abusive... its kinda crazy... (not on chrismas tho thank god) ya... so like... ugh its so hard to explain... but i dont know how to deal with themmm... and then i forgot my mom... she has cancer and is now recovering, but shes been through so much hurt in her life that she barely talks to me... i live with her because i cant stand my father... but at home im alone and im basically raising myself... my father wants me to live with him, he says cuz my moms a dumb bitch and he loves me... i say cuz he doesnt want to pay child support... but ya... its more messued up it would just take hours t oexplain... and then theres me... im not as bad as them but I started my insanity early... i have dealt with many things, sexual abuse, eating disorders, depression, suicide, verbal abusive, neglect, ect... and im hoping that i turn out better than all of them... which is hard... its hard talking about familys to my friends because none of them get it... i often join some of my best friends to thier family things... i love family game night at my friends houses... none of them get it... i dont even get it... ugh... im so sorry for rambeling... but... i dont know wat to do.... does any 1 have any similar situations? and how did u deal with it?
my father is a bastard (i wont get into that now it could take hours but if u really get curios just ask me.) he cheated on my mother who was abused and cheated on and stuff before by her previos husband and father... my fathers married to an ex crack hippie whos children r screw ups. one of her kids married a woman who abused his son, so now there divorced z9for about 5 years now) and living in my dads tiny trailer. my other steb sibling got prego by her bf and is now living with him while having another not so secret bf, while on drugs, while neither of them will get a job cuz a my step sisters a bum, and b my stepsisters baby daddy got some girl prego in high school and he knows that once he gets a job all that moneys going to that kid... one of my brothers moved out is an ultra conservative freak (who i love) but he was a partyer in high school then he met his birth father (who abused my mom) and he went to christian college and is now ultra conservative... my other other brother is a teacher but he was abusive to me and my other brother when he was a teen, and im not aloud to talk about it to any1 because it might "ruin his chances of getting a job"... hes better now tho... my other other other brother is in the army... hes 19 a total pimp (wich i hate) he recently broke up with his fiance... hes a druggee but wont telll me... but we had a mutual friend, and he went to the high school so i know... and then theres a million more messed up family members... its hard to explain how messued up we r... but we all get together round chrismas (cept mom. shes their for the half my dad isnt) and then basically my whole familys drunk they all have their current gf's and bf's, they all hate eachother, and their all crazy... most of them have been abused, or r abusive... its kinda crazy... (not on chrismas tho thank god) ya... so like... ugh its so hard to explain... but i dont know how to deal with themmm... and then i forgot my mom... she has cancer and is now recovering, but shes been through so much hurt in her life that she barely talks to me... i live with her because i cant stand my father... but at home im alone and im basically raising myself... my father wants me to live with him, he says cuz my moms a dumb bitch and he loves me... i say cuz he doesnt want to pay child support... but ya... its more messued up it would just take hours t oexplain... and then theres me... im not as bad as them but I started my insanity early... i have dealt with many things, sexual abuse, eating disorders, depression, suicide, verbal abusive, neglect, ect... and im hoping that i turn out better than all of them... which is hard... its hard talking about familys to my friends because none of them get it... i often join some of my best friends to thier family things... i love family game night at my friends houses... none of them get it... i dont even get it... ugh... im so sorry for rambeling... but... i dont know wat to do.... does any 1 have any similar situations? and how did u deal with it?
But, I am going to tell you something about YOU. You have a great deal of value not only to society, but to yourself. You must remain strong in your convictions throughout the remainder of your teen years to do the very best that you can to insure a wonderful future. You do not have to live in your past, you need to live for today the kind of life you dream of having.
When people verbally abuse you - do not fall into the profanity trap - just walk away knowing you are better than that! Sexual abuse - do not let it happen to you. Report the crime to the authorities. Yes, it is a crime to sexually abuse anyone (minor or adult).
Eating disorders - it is up to you to eat healthy and exercise. Eating disorders are linked with heart and other body organ diseases. You want to keep yourself healthy for your future - your career, your future spouse, your future children. When you exercise think about how healthy you are becoming and how very special you are.
Depression - you can't let others determine your frame of mind. Only you can say "Hey, I'm above all this, I am going to make something of my life!" It seems that those around you are a big cause for your depressing thoughts. Be strong and depend on yourself only - when you depend on others, you can become disappointed. If you feel you have severe depression and suicidal thoughts, please seek a professional therapist. This is very important because you want to live and you want to have a great future (or else you wouldn't have written here).
Spend as much time as you can with your friends and their loving families. Through their examples you can see what family life is really all about, and you can mold your future as such.
Take care of yourself, and be strong and some prayer will help, too. ((HUGS))