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If we keep harping and harping on the fact that a large percentage of registrants are on the sex offender registry for urinating in public or crimes that involve the 19 year old young man having consensual sex with his 15 year old girlfriend, we begin to lose our credibility. Yes, there are some really minor infractions that can get a person placed on the registry, but we cannot put forth a picture that those situations are common---they are not.
I do a lot of reading and when I see comments at the end of an article which stresses what I have just alluded to, I just cringe. We have to be honest with others as well as ourselves.
The public knows better and as I said, it makes us lose our credibility and look silly.
We cannot afford to lose our credibility in this movement.
On the other hand, most of the registrants on the registry were not placed on there because of first degree rape or for being a serial child molester either. I won't get into percentages because I do not know, but most of the people on the registry did not commit a serious, violent, contact crime.
And there ARE some real monsters on the registry. I met some of them in prison. I could tell you stories about their crimes that would really shock your conscience.
But again, only a very small percentage of those on the registry were guilty of such heinous crimes.
We should point out ALL scenarios if we hope to gain traction in our movement.
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Anyway, the point is, later when I re- read the letter, I thought the same thing that you are saying - some of what I said there didn't really apply to most of the situations on this board; didn't necessarily apply even to my situation. Hey, it was my first attempt!
I guess what my question is: what DO my write that will open the door to changing these laws? I know many people have spoken of the families being the key - their stories need to be heard. The collateral damage of these unjust laws. Where do we begin and how do we take those first steps? I feel like a letter I would write today would be different from the one I wrote earlier - I have read more, learned more since then. For me, sometimes I am hesitant - my boyfriend is still in prison and has not had to live under the registry yet. My purpose has been to educate myself because it is harder to fear something you know about. (I believe a lot of fear comes from misunderstanding or fearing the unknown.)
Didn't mean to write so long - my main question is how do we most effectively represent our cause? I know this forum is for support not active advocacy but maybe you can point me in the right direction...
If I were officially in charge of the movement, I would focus on a large tier down system. The premise being that bad things happen when we have an overloaded system. It has gotten too unwieldy, and the police and corrections cannot focus on the people they need to focus on.
It would focus on the static 99, and other tests used to gauge the chances of recidivism. The selling point of this whole thing would be that the police would always still have a list of all offenders even after they come off the public registry.
Tier 1 offenders could apply after 5 years off parole or probation to get their name taken off the public registry.
Tier 2 offenders could apply after 10 years off parole and probation to get tiered down to tier 1. Then they would have to wait another 5 years to get off the public registry if they have offense free living.
Tier 3 offenders could apply after 10 years off parole and probation to get tiered down to tier 2. 10 years to get to tier 1, and 5 years off of tier 1.
The only problem with this system is how peopled are tiered in the first place. It needs to be done based on risk of reoffending. Inevitably prosecutors would start tiering everyone at tier 3.
The Static 99 and other tests are not accurate indicators. The actual recidivism of offenders are. It seems that those with violent offenses are more prone to re-offend than, let's say, a R & J case. Overall, the recidivism is around 5%. That is the indicator.
I do agree that a path to freedom is absolutely necessary. The most dangerous people are those who feel they have nothing to lose.
What would really change the issue is if researchers could do their work in peace and with respect from the scientific community. We can make our points about statistics all we want, but until the people who can get out their and discuss the scientific validity of their findings are actually listened to, we're not going to go very far.
The only thing that I believe will get us somewhere is for each of us to have the courage to talk about how this has affected us. We need to write the books and the articles that demonstrate how cruel the registry is. It starts to need to be seen for the punishment it really is.
In other words, public perception has to change before the registry changes. Either it will take some celebrity standing up against it or it will be like drops of water wearing away at the stone. However, I believe that the stone is not granite. It is sandstone. The basis of the registry is flimsy. It is ridiculously expensive, and it causes generational harm without doing anybody any real good.
It may seem like a small thing, but we need to each find a way to be one of those drops of water. That is the only way to change public perception.
And I also agree it is a scarlet letter that while it may have started as not punishing former offenders, in the internet age we live in now it definitely does. I think it violates the ex post facto law found in clause 3 of Article I, Section 9 of the United States Constitution. I think eventually the Supreme Court will overturn Smith v. Doe.
I believe that research does not lie and researchers do not lie. They are not just bleeding heart liberals trying to mislead the country with phony stats. I think the misconception that most re-offend is wrong based on the research. When ignorant people say things like sex offenders just get better at hiding their victims after they are incarcerated and get out I just laugh. Because being on parole/probation and being on the sex offender registry gives the offender more scrutiny not less. Therefore it is even harder to get away with more crimes than it was the first time.
I say all this because it doesn't matter what we think. It really doesn't. We can all believe in lock step what all the leading research shows, and it amounts to nothing. We need a plan to convince the public to give sex offenders a chance at living a normal life. A tier down approach works because it gives the public safety that they are looking for (which by most research shows is not needed), and it provides light at the end of the tunnel for sex offenders.
No activist I have seen has ever claimed "most" registrants are public pissers or teen sexters. However, we state you can indeed land on the list for those acts. Semantics makes a big difference. There's a difference between saying something is a possibility In making the latter statement we open up the discussion to a truism that not every person on the list is a chili-mo or rape-o.
The other error some people make is forgetting the fact that the legal definitions don't accurately portray the details of the case. If a 19 year old bangs a 7 year old in a state where the AoC is 18, then that person committed "rape," no matter what actually happened. Because the "victim" is a minor, the act is considered "violent." So even if the 19 year old's "victim" is a willing participant, even if she actively or aggressively pursued the act, the 19 year old is a "violent rapist." We can't look on the list and differentiate between him and a 19 year old who actually forcefully raped someone.
Any alleged issues of "credibility" stem from two main issues. One is the fact most of you don't take the fight to those who propagate this garbage. The second coming from the fact that we are in the minority group, and the mass media does not cater to us. When it comes to marketing, VISIBILITY EQUALS CREDIBILITY. We aren't seen as credible because most of you are content with laying low, or "hiding in the shadows," and according to the Valigaturds of the world, hiding is what "pedos" do because you're really all out trolling for kids in your rusty vans. Invisible people are easier to dehumanize and discriminate against. It is amazing how people change attitudes quickly when confronted by someone they
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