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Rew - you are absolutely correct, to accept living in a special environment is to accept becoming less of a person. We pay taxes, we do have rights (yet being whittled away), I agree with you that by accepting such a notion as living in a colony means that we state that we are too dangerous to live among the "rest" of the populace.
i, for one, will never accept such a solution.
a community where you could get a job to take care of self and family and not worry about a background check for sex offenses.
Actually, this is really already happening. If you look at the maps of where sex offenders live, I know that in my area these are all poor and lower middle class. Probably not because all sex offenders are poor, but because these are the people who can't afford to sue or put in pocket parks.
I suggested as a joke that if we are going to be shipped off to an island, then let us choose the island, and I pick Hawaii. Aloha.
but a place that would be open and welcoming to a person who would go there voluntarily because they want to, could be a good thing. not everyone has the strength to weather all the crap being an SO causes and registry storm. not every SO who is homeless because they simply want to be. but because they can find no where else to live and jobs are very hard to find.
someplace that a newly released SO could live to learn about and come grips with living as a registrant and all the rules.
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2014/03/06/circles-of-support-and-accountability_n_4912535.html
I wanted to mention Circles of Support and Accountability in Canada as a model, but it seems like fear mongering has gotten to them, too. I'm going to post this article as a separate thread as well because there are multiple news clips attached at the bottom from all over the country that may be of interest. Mostly what the clips capture is, quite frankly, the incredible stupidity we all know about.
One story is about a guy who was running some group homes that had sex offenders in them. Someone decided all of a sudden to shut them down. Now "dozens" of sex offenders are homeless.
Its not sex offenders living in group homes that is dangerous. It is the willful ignorance of the people who shut them down. Of course, I am preaching to the choir here.
but support from a community at large is basically non-existent. this forum as a community is awesome but it's online.
there is a need for communities that offer real time, real world support and stability. so if that means someone would/could set up some kind of safe/stable community where an SO could live until they managed to get on their own 2 feet??? i would count that as freaking awesome.
i'm thinking of that ?? community in FL where the SO's live together. granted it isn't the greatest and it was rather forced into being by FL crappy laws. but i know that i read that there was a waiting list of SO's who were highly interested.
My response to the SacBee OpEd has been published. It was slightly edited but most of what I wanted out there was still in the article.