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This tells how they got their info.
I had an argument with my very uneducated and very judgemental mother who believes everything that O'Riely and Hannity say, about recidivism and even showing her stats from the stare's own report, she still didn't believe because, "we'll that doesn't count for all the crimes they committed and not reported. And they get arrested for being in a park."
Well duh, if they had kids, yes. She was surprised to hear that and didn't have anything to say....still angry
We have to show people that we are not some kind of menacing creatures who terrorize society by stalking victims. We have to educated the public through our actions and appearance.
I am just a normal guy. I don't dress like Donald Trump and I don't live like a millionaire, but I do know how to present myself in a acceptable manner.
What does that mean? Whenever I go out, I make sure I am clean looking, clean shaven, hair cut and combed, clean clothes, etc. Of course, I don't impress anyone with my appearance, but I make sure I do not look like a the stereotypical image of an ex-convict and sex offender.
I speak clearly, say "yes ma'am" and "no ma'am" (always have), I smile and I look and act anything but a person who went to prison for many years on a sex offense.
I know how to be respectful to ALL people. I always have.
The greatest compliment I have ever received is when people talk and look at me and say, "Hell, how in the world did you get on that registry??" I have had people tell me that many times.
The point I am making is that sometimes we can present to people all the written fact- based evidence, such as the recidivism rate, which has been obtained through various studies and they still are skeptical. But when they SEE with their own eyes that all sex offenders are not trashy, scummy, creepy people, they start to understand the entire situation better.
These are subtle differences that we can make.
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