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In my opinion, living well is the best revenge.
My husband and I have experienced minimal 'bullying' Just a few comments here and there from the in-laws and their lackys. Actually, my husband really has experienced none of it. I'm the one, who has heard it. he remains blissfully unaware and that's ok. They try shit, and I run interference, and he goes about his life happily
The only time they got "through" was when they managed to get him fired from a "crap job" he had, which was okay, cos it lead to me getting the position I have now, which pays way more and has better benefits than what I had, and he found another job elsewhere, and just interviewd for another job, where they like to give second chances so....
The icing on the cake is when my in-laws come to the my work looking for help, saw me, and turned around and left. *shrug* I would have helped them, did my job professionally, and had been pleasant
I can't remember if it has been mentioned but their hosting site probably has an anti-harassment clause in their Terms & Conditions. You can do a whois on the domain name (if they purchased one) and find out who hosts the site, file a complaint with the server/hosts of the site and they are posting that stuff on. Usually a well worded email or letter, possibly implying that there could be legal issues if the site were to remain up (regardless if there are any, they can do their own legal research).
But since the photos are the main part of the bullying, I would say that he should wear as nice of clothes as he can. Shoot rent a tux... really give them something to talk about.
They do it, because they know it gets to him. It loses it's luster, if he doesn't let it bother him
I'm just trying to understand, not passing judgement.